ML> It's his choice, and saying anything isn't going to do any ML> good (advice learned from trying to do the same with my ML> brother). Then, when the doctor says, okay, you have three ML> months to live, why didn't you cut down the carbs, he'll ML> say, why didn't anyone tell me before. RH> He's not paid attention to me before, why should he start now? I'm guessing that he'll only start listening to your perceived former silence - and complain about it. RH> I've seen some of the menus for the Wake County program. Not the RH> greatest, not a lot of stuff that I'd be overly thrilled with eating. ML> My father used to get them and then not eat them - then ML> he'd insist on making me eat them when I came over to visit ML> so as not to be wasteful. Hot pepper and garlic sauces ML> hardly rendered them palatable. RH> My dad has refused them; I think he thinks of them as a charitable RH> hand out. He's not happy with his care giver's cooking but can't cook I was told by someone (who? my memory fails) involved in this kind of operation that some of the organizations get around that prejudice by charging a nominal sum to those who can afford to pay. RH> for himself so he either eats what is fixed (reluctantly) or sends him RH> for take out at one of the local places. The latter is expensive and could be a less healthy option. I know that getting nourishment at all into the guy is the main goal at this stage, but my father was well into his 80s before I started harping on this; he lasted to 89 3/4 or so. RH> I'll avoid MoW as long as I can but as I said, my brother never got RH> into cooking so MoW might tide him over for a bit. ML> I want to avoid MoW as long as I can, perhaps more carefully ML> than I'll avoid death as long as I can. RH> You, at least, know how to cook. My brother never picked up on how to RH> do so, to the best of my knowledge. Did we not discuss the possibility of teaching an old dog at least a few new tricks? ML> Title: Italian Asparagus ML> 1/2 lb Asparagus spears; ML> -cooked or canned RH> I tried the jarred asparagus one--it was a good learning experience. I RH> learned I don't like it. (G) It tends to taste like overcooked regular asparagus. Stringy and mushy at the same time; relatively few canned foods can hold a candle to fresh versions (I am told, though, that the Spanish have made a science of canning seafood products). This one doesn't rely on canned product (I think the herb scheme is a bit much, though). MMMMM----- Recipe via Meal-Master (tm) v8.06 Title: Asparagus with Toasted Pine Nuts & Lemon Vinai Categories: Diabetic, Vegetables, Low-fat/cal, Nuts/grains Yield: 4 Servings 1 lb Asparagus, fresh spears 3 tb Pine nuts 1/4 c Olive oil 1 tb Lemon juice, fresh 1 Clove garlic, crushed 1/2 ts Salt 1/2 ts Basil, dried whole 1/2 ts Oregano, dried whole Pepper, freshly ground Snap off tough ends of asparagus. Remove scales from stalks with knife or vegetable peeler, if desired. Place spears in a steaming rack over boiling water; cover and steam 4-5 min or until spears are crisp-tender. Transfer to a serving platter. Sautee pine nuts in a small skillet over medium heat 2-3 min, until browned. Set aside. Combine olive oil and remaining ingredients in a medium saucepan; stir with a wire whisk to blend. Cook over medium heat 2-3 min or until thoroughly heated, stirring constantly. Pour over asparagus. Sprinkle with pine nuts. Let stand to room temperature before serving. Source unknown MMMMM ___ Blue Wave/386 v2.30 --- Platinum Xpress/Win/WINServer v3.0pr5 * Origin: Check Out Doc's QWK Mail Via Web BBS > DocsPlace.org (1:123/140)
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