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  Msg # 219 of 235 on FOS2H155, Thursday 8-20-14, 7:19  
  From: MICHAEL LOO  
  To: RUTH HAFFLY  
  Subj: family 814  
   ML> It's his choice, and saying anything isn't going to do any  
   ML> good (advice learned from trying to do the same with my  
   ML> brother). Then, when the doctor says, okay, you have three  
   ML> months to live, why didn't you cut down the carbs, he'll  
   ML> say, why didn't anyone tell me before.  
   RH> He's not paid attention to me before, why should he start now?  
    
  I'm guessing that he'll only start listening to your perceived  
  former silence - and complain about it.  
    
   RH> I've seen some of the menus for the Wake County program. Not the  
   RH> greatest, not a lot of stuff that I'd be overly thrilled with eating.  
   ML> My father used to get them and then not eat them - then  
   ML> he'd insist on making me eat them when I came over to visit  
   ML> so as not to be wasteful. Hot pepper and garlic sauces  
   ML> hardly rendered them palatable.  
   RH> My dad has refused them; I think he thinks of them as a charitable  
   RH> hand out. He's not happy with his care giver's cooking but can't cook  
    
  I was told by someone (who? my memory fails) involved in  
  this kind of operation that some of the organizations get  
  around that prejudice by charging a nominal sum to those  
  who can afford to pay.  
    
   RH> for himself so he either eats what is fixed (reluctantly) or sends him  
   RH> for take out at one of the local places.  
    
  The latter is expensive and could be a less healthy option.  
  I know that getting nourishment at all into the guy is the  
  main goal at this stage, but my father was well into his  
  80s before I started harping on this; he lasted to 89 3/4  
  or so.  
    
   RH> I'll avoid MoW as long as I can but as I said, my brother never got  
   RH> into cooking so MoW might tide him over for a bit.  
   ML> I want to avoid MoW as long as I can, perhaps more carefully  
   ML> than I'll avoid death as long as I can.  
   RH> You, at least, know how to cook. My brother never picked up on how to  
   RH> do so, to the best of my knowledge.  
    
  Did we not discuss the possibility of teaching an old  
  dog at least a few new tricks?  
    
   ML> Title: Italian Asparagus  
   ML> 1/2 lb Asparagus spears;  
   ML> -cooked or canned  
   RH> I tried the jarred asparagus one--it was a good learning experience. I  
   RH> learned I don't like it. (G)  
    
  It tends to taste like overcooked regular asparagus.  
  Stringy and mushy at the same time; relatively few  
  canned foods can hold a candle to fresh versions  
  (I am told, though, that the Spanish have made a  
  science of canning seafood products).  
    
  This one doesn't rely on canned product (I think  
  the herb scheme is a bit much, though).  
    
  MMMMM----- Recipe via Meal-Master (tm) v8.06  
    
   Title: Asparagus with Toasted Pine Nuts & Lemon Vinai  
   Categories: Diabetic, Vegetables, Low-fat/cal, Nuts/grains  
   Yield: 4 Servings  
    
   1 lb Asparagus, fresh spears  
   3 tb Pine nuts  
   1/4 c Olive oil  
   1 tb Lemon juice, fresh  
   1 Clove garlic, crushed  
   1/2 ts Salt  
   1/2 ts Basil, dried whole  
   1/2 ts Oregano, dried whole  
   Pepper, freshly ground  
    
   Snap off tough ends of asparagus. Remove scales from stalks with  
   knife or vegetable peeler, if desired. Place spears in a steaming  
   rack over boiling water; cover and steam 4-5 min or until spears  
   are crisp-tender. Transfer to a serving platter. Sautee pine nuts in  
   a small skillet over medium heat 2-3 min, until browned. Set  
   aside. Combine olive oil and remaining ingredients in a medium  
   saucepan; stir with a wire whisk to blend. Cook over medium heat 2-3  
   min or until thoroughly heated, stirring constantly. Pour over  
   asparagus. Sprinkle with pine nuts. Let stand to room temperature  
   before serving. Source unknown  
    
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