XPost: alt.politics.democrats, alt.politics.greens   
   From: alanb@sonic.net   
      
   Well guys ...   
      
   I have been thinking about this on the back burner for some time cooking   
   along ... and this is what came out of it.   
      
   Trying to find a proper subject heading for the change in children when the   
   parent objects are handling the toddler tantrum correctly.  Thus setting the   
   situation for the child to be 'right' with their mom inside, and with their   
   dad inside regaring their Emotional IQ.  Being right this way makes for   
   Strong Good medicine making, no addictions, no divorce as they pick the   
   right people of course.   
      
   As a reminder, when the toddler tantrum is not given the utmost care and   
   mishandled with judgement, expectation, shame, criticism, justification,   
   invalidation and magical thinking then a person is off with mom, they are an   
   addict; off with dad they will get a divorce or have a spouse who foxs   
   around.   
      
   When the toddler tantrum is handled correctly ... then the child is left   
   with a dichotomy in their Emotional IQ (feelings) where in they are soooo   
   angry at their mom and dad and at the same time loves them soooo much for   
   being so conscious and full of love with no judgement, no expectation, no   
   shame, no lording over them, et cetera taking the utmost care sort of them   
   with the playfull patience of waiting for them to accept an invitation to   
   play while dealing with the toddler tantrum.   
      
   Well .... in this dichotomy of feelings where the child loves their mom and   
   dad soooo much and is also soooo angry at them ... the child in their   
   emotional IQ wants the love to be put in over the R-age of the toddler   
   tantrum (as mom and dad already do this and model it of course; have to have   
   it to give it) ... and the child willingly does the emotional work of   
   putting the love into the anger, the toddler tantrum R-age and then grows up   
   in to the age of couage ... the Cour-Age ... the age of the heart.   
      
   Earlier is was the age of the Rrrrrrrr ... R-age.   
      
   That then grows up into Cour-age ... courage.   
      
   Love does that it.   
      
   People who are still stuck in their R-age ... make bad weak medicine. They   
   turn in to grumpy old men or dried up angry cunts.   
      
   other exammples are to take a look at a Waffen SS officer in your minds eye.   
      
   Stiff, single minded, unstopable, not able to listen nor see cause of   
   brainwashing, diaper poop kind of guy and poor fruitage of spirit.   
   Handeling the toddler tantrum with judgement, expectation, shame, criticism,   
   belts, spoons, hair brushes and blood does such things.   
      
   Now look at Jim Jones, or Pat Robertson.   
      
   Stiff, single minded, unstopable, not able to listen nor see cause of   
   brainwashing, diaper poop kind of guy and poor fruitage of spirit.   
      
   Now look at George Bush.   
      
   Stiff, single minded, unstopable, not able to listen nor see cause of   
   brainwashing, diaper poop kind of guy and poor fruitage of spirit.   
      
   Now look at Ahnold Swastakanigger German Nazi Christian Karl Rover type.   
      
   Stiff, single minded, unstopable, not able to listen nor see cause of   
   brainwashing, diaper poop kind of guy and poor fruitage of spirit with no   
   emotions trying to make a 'show' of being healthy.   
      
   How about Ralph Nader ... the Lebanese Fundamentalist from Hell with his   
   stiffness, single minded, unstopable, not able to listen nor see cause of   
   his brainwashing, diaper poop kind of guy with his poor fruitage of the   
   spirit.  Also making a 'show' of being healthy.   
      
   See how stiff 'Insane McCain' is ... single minded, unstopable, not able to   
   listen nor see, making a 'show' of it.  Same kind of toddler tantrum injury   
   that you see in the Waffen SS Officer ... different song ok, but the song   
   player is the same so the outcome is the same Jonestown end.  The Defense   
   Structure is killing them to make the world better, as they are off with   
   raising children.   
      
   That stiff on the death path to the end Huckabee guy ... have to admire him   
   for his Jonestown drive.  But Huck is bad for children.  So is Bobbi   
   Blanchard, Mayor of Santa Rosa.   
      
   How about how stiff Barack Obama with his megalomania ... even having   
   fainting spells like Ahnold Swatznigger gots em ... Barack is stiff, single   
   minded, unstopable, liar, diaper poop kind of guy making a 'show' of being   
   healthy.   
      
   Same for Hillary Clinton ... stiff, single minded, got US into this mess in   
   the first place ...  McCain want to keep us in this mess Clinton and Bush   
   made, and Barack will not fix the mess either has he is all lies, empty hat,   
   no body do nothing like George Bush just making a show of it.   
      
   Dennis Kuchinich is stiff as well, he has todder tantrum issues.   
      
   They are all the very same person as the Waffen SS officer to Jim Jones to   
   George Bush to John McCain, same childhood, same response of the toddler   
   tantrum out of the Defense Structure as a result of PTSD.   
      
   Mr an Mrs America ... vote Independent or Green for Senators and   
   Represenatives.   
      
   33 NEW Senators who are NOT DUMMY DEMS OR GOPERPS.   
      
   435 NEW Represenatives in the House ... not a single Dummy Dem or GOPerp in   
   the House.   
      
   1 New President who is not a GOPerp or a Dummy Dem, a Bernie Sanders no   
   nonsense Yang-Kee.   
      
   Not that their toddler tantrum is fixed, just that they think differently.   
      
   Fix our nation, fix our past if you chose well.   
      
   But then, you guys would have to see the stuck toddler tantrum for what it   
   is.   
      
   To do that, you have to live in love and not fear.   
      
   Living in love stings and never stops stinging, I just find I got used to   
   the sting of love.   
      
   So in recovery folks, keep doing the work, and inside in time your defense   
   structure will put the love inside of you ... so that your dysfunctional   
   parent objects who lived in fear ... living in their R-age of angey   
   rrrrrr-ing all the time inside ... and knowing how to pour love into their   
   wounds.   
      
   Being free from their prison of fears.   
      
   In time and with therapy that works in getting the bitter salty tears out   
   ... you will have that felt connection of the healthy parent lineage ... and   
   then your defense structure will make GOOD STRONG medicine for you ...   
   becuase you have this love inside of you and you know how to pour love into   
   the toddler tantrum.   
      
   Fixing things with good strong medicine as you are living in your Cour-Age   
   and not in your R-age.   
      
   R-age medicine is weak and bad medicine.   
      
   A Bad future comes from the 'R-age' thinking ... and a stunted Emotional IQ.   
      
   What a Waffen SS officer does ... well a sick Jew does and so does a sick   
   Christian do.  They comes from the same sick childhood of fear with no love.   
   They all have the same toddler tantrum injury and all angry inside full of   
   fear. The rrrrrrrr-age inside.   
      
   They want to change the world from fear.   
      
   So they lie like a Waffen SS officer.   
      
   Healthy people change the world through love, speak truth, stuff like that.   
      
      
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