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|    AVERY NEWMAN to All    |
|    The Passion - FROM FAITH TO FREEDOM (28/    |
|    28 Aug 04 15:02:40    |
      [continued from previous message]              Why is it that not one of Jesus' twelve apostles was a woman? Why is it that       women were not accepted as priests, either by Judaism or by Christianity? Why       is it that women were not permitted even to open their mouths in church, and       why were women        purposely kept untutored by direct order from Paul, who specifically enjoined       women from seeking clarification for any religious questions, except only from       their husbands? [281] Finally, why is it that women were told time and again       to be subject to        their husbands in every respect, as if each and every man were God incarnate?       [282] Did Peter and Paul really believe the humbug that they propounded was       firmly based on that wholly preposterous story of Adam and Eve? “Let the woman       learn in silence with        all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over       the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam       was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.”       [283] If we accept the        testimony of Paul, not only would we have to believe the entire story of       creation as recorded in Genesis, but we would have also to compound the       imaginary sin of Eve while completely exonerating Adam, despite the verdict of       God and Adam's clear-cut        complicity in the so-called crime. Ultimately, the words of Paul reveal the       accelerating trend in women's suppression, as it evolved from Judaism into       Christianity. Judaism set the basic pattern in black and white; Christianity       filled it out with        Technicolor.              Priests and Prostitutes       Let us examine in more detail the systematic degradation of woman recorded in       the Old Testament. And let us also have a look at the effect of that       ill-treatment. Imagine the simple story: man desires woman; man marries woman;       man doubts the premarital        chastity of his wife; man fears he may have been cuckolded; man loses interest       in his wife altogether.              First, as regards a man's desire for a particular woman, rape was not a       problem provided the woman was an unbetrothed virgin. If this rape was       concluded cleverly, and no other person was aware of it, that was the end to       the matter. But, if by chance or        by intent, the man and woman were found in the act, the man was then obliged       to pay the woman's father fifty silver shekels and to marry the woman without       any right of divorce. [284] Whether the woman wanted to marry this man or not       mattered little,        because she really had no choice. So, for the man marriage was relatively easy       to arrange; for the woman who was raped into marriage, she could count her       blessings that she was married at all – her husband may be a confirmed       blackguard, but for a woman        who had lost her virginity to marry any kind of man, good or bad, was almost       impossible. According to the laws of Moses, if a man should discover or simply       believe that his new wife was not a virgin when they married, and if she be       unable to prove her        innocence, her punishment was specified as death by stoning. [285]              And what of that poor deflowered damsel who was the victim of an undetected       rape? Her future was very black. According to Mosaic law, a woman could not       usually inherit wealth from her deceased husband or parents, [286] and so she       became totally dependent        upon members of her family to maintain her livelihood throughout her days.       Should her parents discover that their daughter was an unmarriageable spinster       (as was likely to happen sooner or later in the case of the victim of       undetected or unreported rape),        then all too frequently the parents abandoned her to the unmerciful madness       of a man's world. Hungry, shelterless and completely demoralized, the only       avenue open to such a woman was the life of a harlot for, at least then, she       could barter her body for        a handout from some profligate man with money to spare. And if, under these       circumstances, some women tried to hide their shame and avert their fate by       resorting to abortion, despite the danger this posed to their own health (as       well as the murder of the        fetus) – who could really dare to blame them? But, in that society dominated       by males created “in the image of God”, those wretched women were not only       blamed but were damned for leading a life of indecency – condemned by the very       same men who brought        them down. [287] Had the woman been economically independent, she need not       have taken up prostitution, but no alternative was available to a non-virgin       with no means of support for herself or, when abortion was rejected, for her       bastard (fatherless)        child. [288] So it happened that this lewd and shabby profession came into       being, along with a high incidence of abortion and infanticide, in consequence       of the loss of feminine prestige, environmental conditions and outright       economic necessity.              One might have thought that the Jewish rabbis would feel compassion, seeing       the pitiful plight of women in their society; but they thought first for       themselves, offering a prayer of thanksgiving to God that they were not born       as women. If we search        through the pages of history today for the root cause of prostitution and       abortion, surely we must lay the major burden of blame on the gravestones of       those selfish and self-seeking standard-bearers of popular religion. True,       some amount of        licentiousness and dissoluteness may be possible in both women and men due to       individual depravity, but in no way is it possible for an entire community of       fallen women to emerge therefrom. One has only to compare the relative       mountain of male-oriented        pornography to the molehill of the female-oriented variety – both produced and       sold mostly for profit in some man's pocket – in order to realize that men are       more at fault here than women. One finds many men who publicly denounce the       institutions of        prostitution, abortion and pornography, but very few of these righteous       do-gooders are prepared to reform the lopsided social code which allows men       almost unrestrained sexual freedom and, at the same time, offloads the guilt       and unwanted consequences        onto the shoulders of women. In one way or another, it all comes down to the       same old lie – “Eve made me do it.”              No doubt marriage was far better than a woman's other options, though the word       “option” is a bit of a misnomer, considering that women really had little       choice about what happened to them. However, married life for women was by no       means a bed of roses.        If by chance a baby girl was born instead of a boy, then the woman was       prohibited entry into the sanctuary for twice as long as if the baby had been       a boy. [289] If by chance, or if by reason, her husband should suspect that       she had been unfaithful to        him, then he was at full liberty to bring her before the local priest who       would impose upon her a loathsome trial by ordeal, allegedly to determine the       truth of the matter. [290] Needless to say, the question of a woman growing       jealous of her husband did        not arise. And finally, as mentioned earlier, should the man grow tired of his       wife at any stage, divorce was a mere moment's headache – “let him write her a       bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.”       [291] As per the        dictates of traditional Judaism, there was no question of communal property;       when the woman left the “man's house”, she walked out empty-handed, or with       whatever her ex-husband permitted her to take, and that included the children.                     [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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