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|    Andy Hall to All    |
|    Mentally ill Tunisian transsexual sparks    |
|    16 Jan 15 22:24:56    |
      XPost: alt.gossip.celebrities, misc.immigration.usa, alt.politics.media       XPost: alt.politics.obama       From: ahall@yahoo.com              The uncharacteristic showing of a transsexual on a popular       Tunisian chat show this week has stirred a debate online,       reflecting the divided nature of Tunisian society.              Born “Leila”, but going by the name “Jalel,” the transsexual       appeared on Andi Mankolek (“I Have Something to Tell You”) – a       program that enjoys the highest viewership among Tunisian       television channels – explaining that he was registered as       female at birth but has long identified as a man.              Responding to a question about whether his family considered him       a male or a female, Jalel said: “They have always known me as a       female, and they still do treat me as one,” Jalel said.               Jalel, who revealed that he has been using hormonal treatment       to look and sound like a man, explained that he wants to undergo       a sex reassignment surgery but cannot because such surgeries are       illegal in the tiny North African nation. A Tunisian female       footballer grabbed headlines in 2013 when she legally changed       her status from female to male after court consent. But such       incidents seldom take place.              “From the outside, I am a man. But inside, I am a woman. But       deeper inside, I am a man,” Jalel, wearing a pair of sunglasses       that concealed his identity, said, explaining his dilemma.              “I have always felt like a man,” he went on. “I am rejecting my       femininity because I have never felt it. I never felt it because       my brain has been programed to be a man; in the way I think, the       way I speak, and the way I walk.”              In Tunisia, homosexuality is a crime punishable by law, with up       to three years in jail. Fearing legal repercussions and social       discrimination and intimidation, Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and       transgender (LGBT) persons seldom appear on media outlets,       making Jalel’s appearance on the show a first.              In a traditionally Muslim country, which is also known to be one       of the Arab world’s most progressive, Jalel’s story sparked       mixed reactions on social media.              “These are lies. God created her as female and her name is       Leila. She rejected her femininity and she is going to be       punished for this on Judgment Day,” said a Facebook user.              “This woman, and the likes of her, does not need an operation as       she claims because she wants to change God’s creation. She needs       the Islamic State of Iraq and Syria (ISIS); this is her       solution,” said a commentator on Ettounsia’s website. ISIS       reportedly stoned two homosexual men to death in Syria November       last year.              An interview with Tunisia’s grand mufti, Othman Battikh, in       which he declared that sex reassignment surgeries are sinful in       Islam, was also played during the show. Battikh noted that       “corrective surgery” was only allowed in the event the “patient”       proved to have hormonal abnormalities.              Responding to the mufti’s clip, Jalel, who is biologically a       female, said his gender dilemma was internal and not hormonal.       “So if it is sinful, do I continue living this way forever?”              “The mufti is clear. Go to a psychiatrist and you will be fine,”       said another commentator.              Others sympathized with his plight, however. “This person is       going through a lot of struggle that no one understands except       his creator. And our modern-proclaimed society is mocking him,”       said one commenter.              In a Facebook statement, LGBT rights group “Kelmty” hailed Jalel       as a transsexual Tunisian citizen “who had courage to announce       and assert his right to exist within his conception about       himself.”              “Religion continues to deny the psychological component of the       human being although it is one that maintains a real balance       within the person,” it added.              The group also criticized the show host Ala Chebbi’s insistence       to use Jalel’s legal name “Leila” – despite Jalel’s request to       be call by his preferred name – saying it exposed Chebbi’s       “disrespect toward the man who is fighting to exist.”              Between sympathizers and critics, some viewers praised the show       for pushing the limits of freedom of speech, saying such “taboo       subjects” need to be brought forward to the public sphere.              Many Tunisians are not aware of certain things, journalism       student Sarra Mouelhi told Al Arabiya News. This is why “it is       important to discuss such sensitive topics in public,” she added.              Discussing Jalel’s case in such a popular show is a “great idea”       as it will raise awareness among the public and “those ‘cases’       will probably find ways to change their lives for the better,”       Mouelhi said.              “The Tunisian people are now capable of discussing such       sensitive topics given the freedom of expression that the       country is experiencing,” said Jihed Abid, a trainee computer       engineer.              “This case, or homosexuality in general, are not new in Tunisia.       But no one faced the reality of their existence before, or dared       to have a discussion about them.”              Albeit still prejudiced in society, LGBT individuals have been       increasingly joining the public sphere since the ousting of       strongman Zine al-Abidine Ben Ali in 2011, using social media       and the Internet to voice their dissent.              An online magazine for homosexuals in Tunisia and the wider       Middle East and North Africa (MENA), Gayday, was founded shortly       after the revolution and grabbed attention for breaking the       taboo.              Following a televised declaration by former Human Rights       Minister Samir Dilou, in which he said that “there were limits       to freedom” and that homosexuals were “sick” people that need to       be hospitalized, the demand for a legal framework that would       protect LGBT rights grew louder.              But onlookers express that so long as the law is based on       religion, there is little that can be done for the LGBT       community.              “Our legislation is based on Islam,” said law student Eya       Belhaj. “It is sinful to change your sex, and sinful to act like       anything but your sex.”              “He [Jalel] will never be able to change his sex on papers, even       if he takes it to court.”              http://english.alarabiya.net/en/perspective/features/2015/01/11/       Tunisian-transsexual-sparks-debate-after-appearing-on-popular-TV-       show-.html                             --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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