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|    Ed Buck & SF Gate to All    |
|    For friends of the second man found dead    |
|    28 Aug 21 02:25:17    |
      XPost: la.general, alt.politics.media, rec.arts.tv.comedy.colbert-report       XPost: dc.politics       From: all.democrat.nambla.perverts@disney.com              https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2019/01/09/17/8321528-6573905-image-       a-6_1547055571738.jpg              https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2019/01/09/17/8321230-6573905-image-       m-12_1547055672514.jpg              In February, a month before his 55th birthday, Timothy Dean took       the plunge into a rooftop pool in West Hollywood. It was a       baptism at middle age for a man who was open and proud about his       life’s roundabout journey.              “I will never have everything all figured out at once,” Dean       wrote at the time, “but I have enough sorted out now that I can       honestly say I’m happy, healthy & centered in my life.”              Dean’s life was cut short earlier this week. Authorities were       called early Monday to the West Hollywood apartment of       Democratic activist and donor Ed Buck and found Dean unconscious       and not breathing. Paramedics pronounced him dead at the scene.              The cause of Dean’s death has not been released. But Buck’s       attorney, Seymour Amster, stated it was an apparent overdose       after Dean ingested a substance at another location and “came       over intoxicated.”              In the days since, the circumstances of Dean’s death have       prompted a homicide investigation by the Los Angeles County       Sheriff’s Department and become a subject of national interest.       He is the second black man to die in Buck’s Laurel Avenue       residence — a fact that has stoked outrage and suspicion among       activists and community members.              In July 2017, Gemmel Moore, 26, died of a methamphetamine       overdose in Buck’s apartment, which was littered with drug       paraphernalia, according to a Los Angeles County coroner’s       report. Buck, 64, was investigated in the death, and prosecutors       last summer declined to file charges.              As part of the investigation into Dean’s death, detectives have       said they are giving Moore’s case another review.              For Dean’s friends, the painful jolt of his death has been       compounded by what they view as a false caricature of their       friend played out in the media, with accusations of drug use and       conjecture about his adult film roles that misconstrue the man       he had become in recent years.              “He wasn’t an angel, he wasn’t a devil. He was in between, like       everyone else,” said Mark Chambers, who said he met Dean in 1991       through Lambda Basketball League, a gay men’s basketball group.              Chambers, 54, said he knew Dean as a caring and outgoing friend       who preferred to call on holidays and birthdays, not text, and       showed up in person when someone was in need.              “Tim was not reserved. Being a 6-foot-5 black man, you have to       learn how to make people comfortable quick,” Chambers said.       “He’d smile, he’d laugh. Tim put you at ease.”              Dean worked as a fashion consultant at Saks Fifth Avenue, and       previously, at Bloomingdale’s in Century City, Chambers said. As       befit his job, he had a dapper fashion sense: well-fitting       suits, stylish glasses and a collection of bow ties. He also       helped dress Chambers and his husband in Armani suits for their       2015 wedding in Long Beach.              He wasn’t an angel, he wasn’t a devil. He was in between, like       everyone else.       MARK CHAMBERS, FRIEND       For years, he played in the Lambda Basketball League, and this       summer, traveled with Chambers and others to Paris to compete in       the Gay Games. Dean was mostly a power forward, with “an       aggressive, attacker kind of style” on the court, Chambers said.              His initials, T.M.D., became his nickname. Chambers said it was       for “too much drama,” because “he was very dramatic on the       court.” Each year, teammates gave him the “most dramatic award,”       while others received lauds for “butchest player” or “best       defense.”              “It was a term of endearment,” Chambers said. “He knew, and he       took it well.”              Dean grew up in Florida and lived for decades in the same two-       bedroom apartment in West Hollywood. Charlie Sanders, 34, lived       a few blocks away and said while jogging each morning, he saw       Dean leaving for work.              “He was the nicest person,” Sanders said. The pair also played       in the same basketball league in L.A. and traveled to Paris for       the Gay Games this summer.              “You mention his name, and even if you didn’t spend time with       him, you knew who he was and knew him from his smile.”              For the last three years, Dean had allowed Ottavio Taddei to       live in his spare bedroom while Taddei, a native of Italy,       worked as an actor and dancer.              Taddei said that as roommates they couldn’t have been more       different — separated in age by 20 years and having a different              [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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