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      XPost: la.general, alt.politics.media, rec.arts.tv.comedy.colbert-report       XPost: dc.politics       From: gavin.newsom.democrat.felcher@disney.com              https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2019/01/09/17/8321528-6573905-image-       a-6_1547055571738.jpg              https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2019/01/09/17/8321230-6573905-image-       m-12_1547055672514.jpg              For years, Mayor John Duran has been a public avatar for West       Hollywood’s cheekily sexual culture.              From the City Council dais, he joked about wearing gold lamé       underwear and announced a public forum on anal cancer named       Booty Call to Action. But he was also accused by another       councilman of looking for sex on the dating app Grindr during       public meetings.              Even after the city paid $500,000 in 2016 to settle a sexual       harassment lawsuit brought by Duran’s former council deputy —       whom Duran hired after meeting on Grindr and having sex with him       — Duran was reelected.              For many, it seemed West Hollywood was the town that #MeToo       forgot.              But now, amid new allegations of sexual harassment against Duran       by members of the Gay Men’s Chorus of Los Angeles, some West       Hollywood residents and politicians are saying enough is enough       and that times have changed. Three of the city’s five council       members have called on Duran to resign, saying he has become a       distraction.              Protesters are planning to converge on the City Council meeting       Tuesday to call for Duran’s ouster and seek action in another       scandal: the recent deaths of two gay black men in the West       Hollywood apartment of Ed Buck, a white, wealthy Democratic       donor and LGBTQ activist. For several years, Duran worked as an       attorney for Buck.              Last week, Robert Oliver resigned as vice chair of the city’s       Public Safety Commission in protest after other commissioners       declined to condemn Duran.              “It is time that the #MeToo movement comes to West Hollywood,”       he said.              Duran, 59, has refused to step down, describing himself as a       proudly sensual gay man who lived through a sexual revolution       colliding against a prudish #MeToo movement that’s too quick to       judge. Bawdiness is just part of who he’s always been, Duran       said, and he’s not going to change now.              “There’s a culture clash going on,” the mayor said. “If somebody       expresses himself or herself sexually, that doesn’t make it       harassment, per se.”              “People are thinking that anything sexual is harassment because       somebody feels it is unwelcome, but you have to open your mouth       and say, ‘No, I don’t want this.’ … Otherwise, how are any of us       able to navigate the sexual politics of 2019? I just think there       are bigger, more complex issues at play, that everyone needs to       take a timeout and slow down. It can’t be accusation equals       guilt.”              Three current or former members of the Gay Men’s Chorus have       accused Duran, the longtime board chairman, of crude sexual       comments and engaging in unwanted touching.              Chorus member Brian Phillip Nichoalds said Duran slipped his       hand inside Nichoalds’ waistband and made sexually charged       comments. Joey Firoben, a former member, said Duran made       inappropriate comments to him too.              Jason Tong, 23, who was both a singing member and part-time       employee of the chorus, said that, in October, Duran came up       behind him and put two fingers inside his waistband, near his       hips, in a changing room before a show in Glendale. Tong said he       turned around and made eye contact with Duran, who silently left       the room.              “I sort of went into a shocked state,” Tong said. “It all       happened very quickly, five seconds or so. … I went to the next       changing room over and told a couple of my friends what       happened. Only then did I realize I had been violated by       someone.”              Tong said he was upset Duran was trying to blame a generational       difference and that he “knows lots of older gay men who       definitely understand the idea of consent.”              “No matter how old you are,” he said, “it’s very easy to ask       first.”              Oliver, 29, said the accusations against Duran went beyond “gay       culture” and colorful language.              “It’s his generation that made it possible for me to be an out,       proud, liberated, married gay man today,” Oliver said. “But it’s       my generation’s responsibility to take the lessons that we have       learned collectively as a society and bring those to our LGBT       community and teach his generation.”              On Tuesday, City Council members Lindsey Horvath, Lauren Meister       and John D’Amico posted similar statements to their individual       Facebook pages calling for Duran to resign.              “Our City cannot focus on the work of the people when we have to       address new and numerous allegations of sexual misconduct,              [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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