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   Sue H to All   
   Re: Alert for Boston-area collectors...M   
   06 Sep 08 21:34:25   
   
   From: dahoov2@cox.net   
      
   Hey Max, he was actually replying to others too this time; not me.   I   
   didn't post those things about Mel... Anyway, he's slammed several   
   people here, but reading what you found, does indeed sound exactly   
   what I thought about him too.  It makes perfect sense.   
   Great post.  But hey, I am all for lonely boy... he makes me laugh.   
   >   
   >Whilst not all of the below is being done I would say the following   
   >   
   >Stalking is the obsessive following, observing, or contacting of another   
   >person, or the obsessive attempt to engage in any of these activities. This   
   >includes following the person to certain places, to see where they live or   
   >what the person does on a daily basis, it also includes seeking and   
   >obtaining the person's personal information in order to contact him or her;   
   >e.g. looking for his or her details on computers, electoral rolls, personal   
   >files and other material containing the person's private information without   
   >his or her consent.   
   >   
   >Obsessive following...  It seems that all you do is post after Sue has   
   >posted.   
   >Observing - You are obviously doing this or you wouldn't reply to all of   
   >Sue's posts   
   >Contacting - After every post   
   >   
   >Whilst these things are not being done in person but online is another   
   >factor.   
   >   
   >Stalking - Online Cyberstalking   
   >   
   >They range from the usual Wannabees to the sociopath-the most dangerous of   
   >all.   
   >Which apparently is what I'm dealing with. What is the primary motive for   
   >this type of stalker? According to BullyingOnline "Jealousy and envy   
   >motivate the bully to identify a competent and popular individual who is   
   >then controlled and subjugated through projection of the bully's own   
   >inadequacy and incompetence. When the target asserts their right not to be   
   >bullied, a paranoid fear of exposure compels the bully to perceive that   
   >person as a threat and hence neutralize and dispose of them as quickly as   
   >possible. Once a person has been eliminated there's an interval of between 2   
   >days and 2 weeks before the bully chooses another target and the cycle   
   >starts again".   
   >   
   >Totally lacking empathy or the ability to socialize within normal   
   >parameters, these individuals seek out people who appear to threaten their   
   >place in the order of things. Competent, capable people, people who refuse   
   >to be controlled or to compromise their integrity or system of ethics,   
   >become the subject of attack, until safely disposed of.   
   >   
   >I can google as well mate and as far as I am concerned the above is an   
   >absolute description of you.   
   >   
   >If you do not want to partake in a general discussion about autograph   
   >collecting then there is no need for you to be here.   So move along.....   
   >   
      
   --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05   
    * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)   

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