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|    Sue H to All    |
|    Re: Alert for Boston-area collectors...M    |
|    06 Sep 08 21:34:25    |
      From: dahoov2@cox.net              Hey Max, he was actually replying to others too this time; not me. I       didn't post those things about Mel... Anyway, he's slammed several       people here, but reading what you found, does indeed sound exactly       what I thought about him too. It makes perfect sense.       Great post. But hey, I am all for lonely boy... he makes me laugh.       >       >Whilst not all of the below is being done I would say the following       >       >Stalking is the obsessive following, observing, or contacting of another       >person, or the obsessive attempt to engage in any of these activities. This       >includes following the person to certain places, to see where they live or       >what the person does on a daily basis, it also includes seeking and       >obtaining the person's personal information in order to contact him or her;       >e.g. looking for his or her details on computers, electoral rolls, personal       >files and other material containing the person's private information without       >his or her consent.       >       >Obsessive following... It seems that all you do is post after Sue has       >posted.       >Observing - You are obviously doing this or you wouldn't reply to all of       >Sue's posts       >Contacting - After every post       >       >Whilst these things are not being done in person but online is another       >factor.       >       >Stalking - Online Cyberstalking       >       >They range from the usual Wannabees to the sociopath-the most dangerous of       >all.       >Which apparently is what I'm dealing with. What is the primary motive for       >this type of stalker? According to BullyingOnline "Jealousy and envy       >motivate the bully to identify a competent and popular individual who is       >then controlled and subjugated through projection of the bully's own       >inadequacy and incompetence. When the target asserts their right not to be       >bullied, a paranoid fear of exposure compels the bully to perceive that       >person as a threat and hence neutralize and dispose of them as quickly as       >possible. Once a person has been eliminated there's an interval of between 2       >days and 2 weeks before the bully chooses another target and the cycle       >starts again".       >       >Totally lacking empathy or the ability to socialize within normal       >parameters, these individuals seek out people who appear to threaten their       >place in the order of things. Competent, capable people, people who refuse       >to be controlled or to compromise their integrity or system of ethics,       >become the subject of attack, until safely disposed of.       >       >I can google as well mate and as far as I am concerned the above is an       >absolute description of you.       >       >If you do not want to partake in a general discussion about autograph       >collecting then there is no need for you to be here. So move along.....       >              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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