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      XPost: alt.activism.children, rec.arts.disney.parks, japan.disney       XPost: alt.collecting       From: absolute-boneheads@washingtonpost.com              For many middle- and high-school students, giving an in-class       presentation was a rite of passage. Teachers would call up       students, one by one, to present their work in front of the       class and, though it was often nerve-racking, many people claim       it helped turn them into more confident public speakers.              “Coming from somebody with severe anxiety, having somebody force       me to do a public presentation was the best idea to happen in my       life,” one woman recently tweeted. According to a recent survey       by the Association of American Colleges and Universities, oral       communication is one of the most sought-after skills in the       workplace, with over 90 percent of hiring managers saying it’s       important. Some educators also credit in-class presentations       with building essential leadership skills and increasing       students’ confidence and understanding of material.              But in the past few years, students have started calling out in-       class presentations as discriminatory to those with anxiety,       demanding that teachers offer alternative options. This week, a       tweet posted by a 15-year-old high-school student declaring       “Stop forcing students to present in front of the class and give       them a choice not to” garnered more than 130,000 retweets and       nearly half a million likes. A similar sentiment tweeted in       January also racked up thousands of likes and retweets. And       teachers are listening.              |???????????|       stop forcing students       to present in front of the       class and give them a       choice not to              |___________|       \ (•?•) /       \ /       ---       | |              — leen (@softedhearts) September 8, 2018       Teachers, please stop forcing students to present in front of       the class & raise their hand in exchange for a good grade.       Anxiety is real.              — amberlicious. ?? (@DAMNBlEBERS) January 30, 2017       Students who support abolishing in-class presentations argue       that forcing students with anxiety to present in front of their       peers is not only unfair because they are bound to underperform       and receive a lower grade, but it can also cause long-term       stress and harm.              MORE STORIES              When Anxiety Hits at School       LUCY DWYER              A New Kind of Social Anxiety in the Classroom       ALEXANDRA OSSOLA              Is Anxiety Overdiagnosed?       LINDSAY ABRAMS              Surviving Anxiety       SCOTT STOSSEL       “Nobody should be forced to do something that makes them       uncomfortable,” says Ula, a 14-year-old in eighth grade, who,       like all students quoted, asked to be referred to only by her       first name. “Even though speaking in front of class is supposed       to build your confidence and it’s part of your schoolwork, I       think if a student is really unsettled and anxious because of it       you should probably make it something less stressful. School       isn’t something a student should fear.”              “It feels like presentations are often more graded on delivery       when some people can’t help not being able to deliver it well,       even if the content is the best presentation ever,” says       Bennett, a 15-year-old in Massachusetts who strongly agrees with       the idea that teachers should offer alternative options for       students. “Teachers grade on public speaking which people who       have anxiety can’t be great at.”              “I get that teachers are trying to get students out of their       comfort zone, but it’s not good for teachers to force them to do       that,” says Henry, a 15-year-old also in Massachusetts.              To the thousands of teens who support the effort to do away with       in-class presentations (at least enough to like a tweet about       it), anxiety is no small issue. Students said they understood       why older people might tell them to “suck it up,” but that doing       so was unproductive. Some responses to the most recent viral       tweet, though, noted that giving a presentation in spite of       anxiety might reduce a student’s fear of public speaking.              Just so you know, “Exposure therapy” is commonly used amongst       psychologist as a behavior therapy to help treat anxiety       disorder. So your point about “ it can’t be cured facing your       fears.” Is just false.              — Mightykeef (@MightyKeef) September 10, 2018       Being a high schooler in 2018 is more stressful than ever.       Academic demands on students are high, kids participate in more       extracurricular activities than in the past, and they are       saddled with extra hours of homework.              “Kids doing sports don’t get home till 7:00 p.m. I get home at       5:30 p.m. tonight but it’s going to get worse,” Bennett says.       “Kids ... can’t be holed up in their room every night till 1:00       a.m. finishing homework on their third Red Bull.” These              [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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