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   From: alanb@sonic.net   
      
   Hey guys ...   
      
   Thought you might like to go down this path ... where it ends up is with the   
   movie "Gone with the Wind" where Rhett says to Scarlet: "Frankly dear I   
   don't give a damm.   
      
   So ... what is this about .. it is the victim/hero.   
      
   Boys and girls do it.   
      
   Girls make this a favorite game of theirs.   
      
   The Victim/Hero has been going on for a LONG time, it comes from the defense   
   structure ... a function of PTSD and usefull to staying alive ... sick,   
   dysfunctional, making casualities, saddness and regrets ... but alive.   
      
   In a court of law this is seen with the victimize battered wife/girlfriend   
   sort of thing.  Let us take this from her point of view, but remember boys   
   do this as well ... when they are out battleing the enemy and having victory   
   over it; especially if the enemy is terror, a boogie man, the evil Santa.   
      
   What the girl does ... she is really angry inside but is all sweetness,   
   light and love on the outside.  She gets the man angry (he is a pistol and   
   easy to do, remember he is just as angry as she is).  He yells at her, make   
   treats over the phone, etc.  She starts to tell her friends, her co-workers,   
   her prayer circle, and recruits all the people who fall for the story she is   
   making where she is the victim ... and they get to raise her as a hero over   
   the bad man.  She had victory with prayer.  She is a hero and so are we in   
   the prayer circle.   
      
   This carries on until she taken by hand and she is ushered to the cops, and   
   the next things she knows the cops listen to 50 mintues of tapes, and the   
   next thing she knows she is signing papers, and the next thing she knows   
   Miss sweetness, light and love ... this is all turned into an arrest   
   warrent.   
      
   In California to make such bad phone calls is now a FELONY under the   
   Swartznigger rule of law.  It is a TERRORIST charge ... causing fear in   
   another person is a crime.  A felony terror charge.   
      
   The next step for her, after he is arrested if she is really sick ... is to   
   then drop the charges, and run to her boyfriend and show herself as the   
   person who he victimize and now she is a hero to him and his family for   
   dropping the charges.   
      
   Maybe the rebound sex is good ... don't matter.  It will keep escalating the   
   cycle of violence she is instigating unconsciously cause she hates her dad   
   so much, she will be victimized again at her request actually ... and then   
   get to play the hero again.   
      
   This goes back and forth.  Until he is so ragefull that he kills her and   
   does an OJ.  She will not let go of him, and he will not let go of her; go   
   out and get recovery from their relationship addiction and sex addictions.   
      
   He will not change the emotional bathwater, she will not either.   
      
   This victim/hero goes way back to Mythology .. where Zeus was screwing   
   around on Hera (the wicked step mother).  Hera would get hesterical and   
   ditzy, do something nasty to her stepchildren/husband, and then rush in   
   being a heratic, making prevarications, misrepresentations and obfuscations,   
   secrets and lies ... thus making herself out as the hero covertly fixing   
   things after making all the mess.   
      
   How to do boys do it.   
      
   The make up a false enemy, and then go out and defeat it making them selves   
   a hero.   
      
   See George Bush for an example as Ossama is the silly wabbit getting him   
   good.   
      
   The fix is changing the emotional bathwater from fear to love, fixing the   
   toddler tantrum and growing up.   
      
   No fix what is broken, just keep doing the casualities, saddness and regrets   
   until you do.   
      
   The Defense Structure is patient, it will wait life times until you tire of   
   it one way or the other.  Tire of the disease and live, or tire of living   
   and die.   
      
   See Jonestown.   
      
   With Rhett Butler and Scarlett ... Scarlett was all victimized by herself   
   through her own manipulations and lack of making good strong medicine.   
   Scarlett keep destroying her life with casualites, saddness and regrets   
   making a mess of things.  Then when it all falls down around her in her   
   Jonestown court of law called the Civil War she was drawn into ... then she   
   swoons, does her Southern Bell thing, and wants Rhett to rescue her.   
      
   Rhett figures out that the only person to save Scarlett from her magical   
   thinking is herself, and he gives up ... saying to her ... I don't give a   
   damm.  Still angry yes, but finally healthy enough to have nothing to do   
   with her since there is no way to fix this out side of the person doing the   
   victim/hero game all the time.   
      
   May our Jealous God the Father who makes babies with His daughters and   
   manifest as talking fire, smoke, serpent staff, insects, pestilence, bog   
   creatures, darklight, and mass casuality child killing airs keep you safe   
   and unmolested.   
      
   sumbuddie hopes this helps.   
      
   :)   
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   at nickols_k@mail.ru wrote on 1/13/08 6:09 AM:   
      
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