From: abmac@dslextreme.com   
      
   Hi Guys.   
      
   My doctor asked me to write a book.  He thinks this is good information   
   to put out.   
      
   What this is all about is the Human Condition.   
      
   The more heuristic multi-disciplinary knowledge you have at your   
   disposal the more you are going to get out of this.   
      
   The Human Condition is just as simple as when ducks come out of the   
   shell and will walk behind what ever is in front of them.   
      
   Humans do the same thing as ducks do in this bonding, imprinting and   
   mirroring .. however humans quack more about it and are a bit more   
   complicated.   
      
   Ducks just do it.   
      
   In the therapy setting, that is what is done with 'Therapeutic Touch'   
   where the therapists has permission for appropriate touch like putting a   
   hand on the shoulder in gentle assurance, or helping a spastic muscle   
   release ... just simple stuff to do that makes big results.   
      
   The scale that I am drawing on when people are born is from ZERO to NINE   
   ... right now.   
      
   As 'we' .. err ... psychologist, psychiatrist, therapists, etc have   
   agreement on what we know; as this is a science, where fact meets truth.   
      
   Most of what I talk about here is self- evident, the more stuck in your   
   toddler tantrum the harder it will be to understand what is here.   
      
   So on with it ...   
      
   That Zero in birth .. is was is seen as Death.  Failure to thrive is the   
   medical term, I think the Latin is 'marasmass' I dunno.  This is where a   
   child is born, the mother will not touch or pick up the baby, there is   
   no bonding with hormones flowing like picking up a puppy and having   
   nuzzle kisses.   
      
   It FEELS GOOD ... all those hormones swimming in the new born brain ...   
   wakes it up, and start to make imprints and aliveness.   
      
   This Death was seen in the Blitz, London ... many orphans, had food and   
   diapers .. screaming babies .. no one to hold them except a few.   
      
   So the nurses and such .. looked about and picked the ones who would   
   live ... just willy nilly there were so many.   
      
   Then they stayed their with their charges and watch them die except for   
   the one in their arms ... that one lived.   
      
   So ... sudden infant death syndrome .. what ever you want to call it and   
   the like ... is this Duck imprinting starting right here with serotonin,   
   petosin and other hormones in the soup the brain nerves are swimming in.   
      
   That carriers on through the child's life .. this contact with the   
   parents, connection to the ancestors and being held while relexes take   
   place.   
      
   It is physical ... through touch .. and you MUST have another person   
   about to make this happen in the human body.   
      
   So what does a NINE look like, as we did Zero.   
      
   Nine is alive and connected to mom and dad ..   
      
   so that 90 percent of being off with Mom and an addict are fixed.   
      
   so that 90 percent of being off with Dad and having divorces, affairs   
   and dead children are fixed.   
      
   This is seen when a child is abused, raped, where ever horror done to   
   them .. and they make their way back from hospital to home.   
      
   Mom, or therapist from good fathers, and men who have good fathers ..   
   all have this skill set.   
      
   Mom just waits for the child to fall asleep, she spoons with pillows so   
   that a warm light hand is on the shoulder of the injured child ALL NIGHT.   
      
   Mom waits for it to be accepted, she stays there all night in contact,   
   and waits for the child to awaken, and later to break contact on their own.   
      
   When that happens .. the Nine is establish and that Post Traumatic   
   Stress disorder is 90 percent fixed.   
      
   More has to happen ... but we know what a 9 .. a nine looks like in healthy.   
      
   I have to leave 'we' talk behind now, as this is how I am putting things   
   together from what 'we' know.   
      
   In therapy sessions, using Applied Psycho physiology interventions, we   
   often go through the back door of the right address to make healthy happen.   
      
   It is rare that a 24 year old comes in, knows they have 'Duck Disease'   
   from poor imprinting and want therapy to fix it.   
      
   YOU SEE ... PEOPLE HAVE TO ASK FOR THIS SHIT in their life to get fixed   
   up ... there is no promotions just attractions.   
      
   Gentleness, and love is all that goes on here, and no pushing allowed as   
   it replicates the disease and sends it deeper into the Defense Structure.   
      
   So my usual client is age 40 or 50, in crisis .. before a Judge, having   
   a divorce, DUI with accident injury .. what ever crap has driven them to   
   realize that is 'them' that is the problem and they are "FED UP WITH IT'   
   .. want to change things.   
      
   She is about 4 on the zero to nine scale, unconscious, in her toddler   
   tantrum, educated, sophisticated, urban, like Maria Shriver or Wendy   
   Williams .. or any one you see on tee vee.   
      
   She is a lady who hates her husband, wants a divorce and can not make it   
   happen, she has sex with him and must be drunk in his presence.   
      
   The client admires me, there is 'transference' going on and all the   
   necessary therapeutic criteria for a good outcome are in place, we are   
   totally honest with each other and will fix anything that comes up ..   
      
   After about the 5th session, she comes like always and chats about the   
   previous week, boy scouts, church, etc.   
      
   Then she sums it up with a statement like 'I really feel my husband is   
   sick in the head".   
      
   I then ask ... 'Where do you feel that in your body'   
      
   She gets upset, angry, her toddler tantrum comes out.   
      
   'Gasp ... you are making it sound like I am crazy, you are mean, I just   
   want to punch you out'   
      
   I respond ... 'No, no .. nothing like that is going on, we are only   
   talking about feelings.  Now that I brought up the subject of feelings.   
     How do you feel about that now" ... as I point my finger to the ground   
   in front of her to get her present (she is fragmented in her toddler   
   tantrum you know).   
      
   She then says "I feel angry and confused, I just want to hit you'.   
      
   I reply .. 'That anger you feel, where do you feel in your body'.   
      
   She responds with hesitation "I feel it in my arms."   
      
   I then say .. "Extend your arms and flick your fingers like you were   
   flicking water from the tips and says the words 'LET GO, LET GO' .. do   
   this twice."   
      
   "Lets see what happens .. maybe nothing will happen.   
      
   She does that ... and immediately starts to cry from her shoulders.   
      
   I reach over for a few minutes and hold her hand, and then her shoulder   
   until she is composed.   
      
   There are paper napkins and disposal bins available in all therapy   
   sessions of course.   
      
   I ask her how she is feeling .. and she responds "I am more confused   
   then ever, a moment ago I was angry and that is gone now.  I don't   
   understand'.   
      
   I then ask .. as things are boiling away here and ripe for work.   
      
   "That confusion you feel .. where do you feel it in your body"   
      
   She responds "I feel it in my tummy, I feel like I want to throw up'.   
      
   I then ask her to stick her two fingers down her throat to elicit the   
   'gag reflex' as this requires the tummy to totally 100 percent relax.   
      
      
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