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   Message 946 of 2,497   
   Crowfoot to Jyeshta   
   Re: anyone out there?   
   12 Feb 07 19:01:08   
   
   From: pagemail@swcp.com   
      
   In article ,   
    Jyeshta  wrote:   
      
   > On Sun, 11 Feb 2007 16:46:16 -0700, Crowfoot    
   > wrote:   
   >   
   > >In article ,   
   > > Jyeshta  wrote:   
   > >   
   > >> I wrote:   
   > >>   
   > >> >> What you said in a prior post, about the urge to experience   
   > >> >> physicality - to be able to run in a strong body - many cannot!  To   
   > >> >> taste favorite foods again - I believe all one need do is remember it   
   > >> >> and the taste is experienced.  I don't believe at all that the   
   > >> >> prospect of physicality is attractive to the older discarnate soul or   
   > >> >> entity.   
   > >> >   
   > >> >Well, but suppose you were unable to have an athletic or even a   
   > >> >fit body in this life, but then you're done and you realize that for   
   > >> >your next time around you can choose a body that's super-fit and   
   > >> >maybe is even going to be able to travel to the stars -- the   
   > >> >*physical* stars, not the vibrational perception of them that I   
   > >> >suppose non-physical beings would have.  That would be a pretty   
   > >> >strong temptation, wouldn't it?  I think it's a grass-is-always-   
   > >> >greener kind of situation: when you're in the body, you long to be   
   > >> >pure spirit, but when you're only spirit -- maybe then you long for   
   > >> >the powers of the body?  Why else would we keep coming back   
   > >> >(which I believe we do)?  Because of some kind of determinism?   
   > >> >Well, maybe -- but I'd rather believe that I choose to return   
   > >> >because there's something magnetic about being *here*, too.   
   > >> >And in the absence of proof either way, I think I'll stay with that.   
   > >>   
   > >> I guess we'll need to agree to disagree on that point, then.   
   > >   
   > >Sure, no problem.   
   > >   
   > >> I don't believe at all that we are eager, after hundreds of   
   > >> incarnations, to jump into an incarnation of pure suffering, for   
   > >> example.  Sure, if we arrange to have a mostly happy life, maybe the   
   > >> prospect of such an incarnation seems all right.  But for the most   
   > >> part, I do not think that older souls welcome additional incarnations,   
   > >> at least not on this planet.   
   > >   
   > >I think I misunderstood you: I also think that older souls are   
   > >much less interested in coming back the older they get, but   
   > >return as many times as needed to to complete their -- studies?   
   > >experiences? -- here, including choosing specific lives (and   
   > >specific partners -- those they have previously injured or been   
   > >injured by) to collaborate with on repaying or collecting out-   
   > >standing karmic debts.   One reason I doubt that the   
   > >sensations of physical experience are available in full force to   
   > >discarnate souls is that if they were, I don't think any soul   
   > >would have the nerve to undertake repayment because the   
   > >process in reality, as opposed to the abstract, can be so painful.   
   > >   
   > >Just as an aside -- I have a close relative whose life has been (after   
   > >an initially lively and promising two first decades) quite unhappy;   
   > >so much so that I inquired with a good source I know, and was   
   > >told that she's paying karma this time around as part of her   
   > >preparation for leaving the "young" cycles of soul experience behind   
   > >at last and moving on into the "mature" cycles.  According to this   
   > >source (which is, of course, as unverifiable as everything else in   
   > >these areas), she has actually paid 4 of a set of 7 debts occasioned   
   > >by an incident of familial desertion (a wife and six children, left   
   > >behind, starved to death).  I've asked, is she for-gods'-sake-   
   > >FINISHED finally, because it's been painful for me as well, watching   
   > >this miserable progress as it has worsened over time. I get told that   
   > >this is her choice to make.  All I can say is, if I were on the astral   
   > >plane thinking about off-loading some karmic baggage next time   
   > >and if I could focus solidly and realistically on the amount of   
   > >prolonged, exhausting suffering involved in doing that, I'd never   
   > >have the guts to get on with it.   
   > >   
   > >C   
   >   
   > My feeling about that is from the vantage point of the spirit world,   
   > an earth life presents itself as incredibly short, and I believe that   
   > when we choose to take on these really awful incarnations it's because   
   > from that perspective it will be over in the blink of an eye.   
      
   That makes sense to me.   
      
   > Unfortunately, once we do incarnate, we experience that time passes   
   > much more slowly in the physical world, and we are mostly unable to   
   > remember what it is like in the spirit world or why we are suffering   
   > so terribly for so long.  That's the flaw in the whole scheme - the   
   > suffering without explanation or understanding why.   
      
   But it's only a *flaw* from this same limited earth-view; and   
   a lifetime of ghastly suffering *here* may seem like a (very   
   intense) flash in the pan from there -- in the light of 75 other   
   lifetimes before and as many to go after, over a couple of   
   thousand years, maybe.   
      
   I don't think we normally do our actual *learning* while we're   
   still in the midst of physical life; it's in the weighing up of the   
   whole thing, the assessment of how it fits in with all the ones   
   that came before, that most of the learning happens, I think.   
   Here, we're too bound up by cultural values and perceptions;   
   on the astral plane, wouldn't you think that the "view" would   
   be so much broader, allowing all sorts of new understandings   
   to develop.  Maybe that's one reason that some between-life   
   gaps are so long (my mother-in-law lived to be 100, and I   
   asked once, recently, how she's doing and was told that she's   
   still mulling it all over, as it was very long life; made sense   
   to me).   
      
   Well, it's not the way *I* would arrange the universe if I   
   were in charge, but then I'm a very impatient person and   
   I'd like us to get through all our lives pretty smartly and find   
   out what goes on after, I mean *really* find out, each for him   
   or herself.   
      
   C   
      
   --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05   
    * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)   

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