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|    Dave Cross to All    |
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|    23 Apr 21 21:18:56    |
      XPost: alt.gossip.celebrities, alt.politics.democrats.d, sac.general       XPost: alt.rush-limbaugh       From: Davecross@kremlin.ru              LEHI — Michelle Love-Day listened to a friend’s tearful fears       with the kind of aching empathy that most black mother’s wish       they didn’t understand.              “Her children are 3 and 4,” Love-Day recalled. “And she was       crying as she said, ‘My kids are so cute right now. We go in       places, and everyone loves them, like they’re little puppy dogs.       But at what age do my kids turn into a threat?’              “Then I started crying,” said Love-Day, the mother of a 19-year-       old son.              Love-Day, Nikki Walker, Toni Ragsdale, Stephanie Hesleph, Rita       Martin, Bridget Shears and Carol Matthews Shifflett all       understand this fear in their bones.              In fact, when it comes to the realities of being a black mother,       especially to black boys, no words need to pass between them to       communicate the deep, unmitigated fear they carry when it comes       to the risks their children must navigate in even the most       mundane circumstances.              In recent weeks, with the deaths of Ahmaud Arbery and George       Floyd, the trepidation that lives in the back of their minds       since those babies graduated from diapers to grade school, is       now the collective horror of a country that still can’t seem to       grasp the realities of the dangers they face every day.              “I worry every time they leave out the door that they might not       come home,” said Stephanie Hesleph, who has three sons — ages       27, 33 and 40. “I grew up fearing the police. My parents       instilled that in me. But this generation, they’re different.       They do not fear the police.”              And that, especially for black mothers, is both a point of pride       and a terrifying realization.              The mothers interviewed for this story said they know that all       mothers worry about their children. They hope they choose good       friends, apply themselves in school, stay away from drugs and       alcohol, and avoid unnecessary physical risks.              “But the uniqueness of challenges for black mothers is that we       have at least an extra layer of fear that we have to share with       our children, our sons more specifically,” said Walker. “Moving       from New Jersey to Utah amplified that requirement for me as a       black mother.”              Teach your fucking brats that Democrats are the enemy and to       respect the law.              They'll live longer.              https://www.deseret.com/utah/2020/6/11/21286075/black-mothers-       moms-live-deep-fear-safety-children-especially-boys-what-age-       kids-turn-into-threat                      --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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