From: dicksilk@gmail.com   
      
   On Saturday, February 4, 2023 at 9:23:32 AM UTC-6, sandy$ wrote:   
      
   > The whole thing was a nightmare from riding a cloth log, there was no water   
   fall, engineer talking about water falling on the roof possibility. My   
   ex-husband was very controlling. Why I keep dreaming of him all these years   
   unless there are still    
   unresolved issues that we never worked out. There is [always] the next   
   lifetime(reincarnation).    
      
   Hmmm... so the riding the cloth log gives me the *impression* much like riding   
   a horse:  a manner of conveyance, only in this case, the log has zero   
   intelligence.  Such a device would likely only move in conjunction with a flow   
   of the surrounding media (   
   like how a paper airplane will sail farther when one throws it *with* the   
   wind.)   
      
   So just out of curiosity, and this comes mainly from a male/female difference   
   in perspective, does the female (or at least in this case, yourself) prefer to   
   avoid mindless motion?  Like, even a roller-coaster has an "order" in its   
   direction, in that it    
   stays *on* the track and follows the track itself.  But a motion with zero   
   obvious flow?  I can see how that *might* be disconcerting.  Just curious.   
      
   Another thought:  *what -IF-* the engineer had been foreign?  (Like Spanish,   
   for instance) and his concept of "rain fall upon the roof" may have come   
   across "in translation" as [water falling on the roof]?  (This sounds like the   
   best "logical"    
   possibility to me.  I've had a bit of years trying to reason out some specific   
   points / turns of phrase within some dream experiences.)   
      
   As to any unresolved issues, let those "go with him."  You fairly well   
   resolved *all* of those issues when he divorced you / you divorced him.  His   
   issues are no longer *any* of your issues, which raises the question, are   
   there any issues *you personally*   
    would like to work on?  If so, what might you do to address them?  As to any   
   possibility of "next incarnation," why pre-load a child with unresolved issues   
   from your adult present?   
      
   Consider:  "NOW is" the *consequence* of ALL past *and* the *cause* of ALL   
   future.  (Just something to think about.)   
      
   Meanwhile, I had a real "kicker" of a dream myself this morning.  Haven't had   
   one of those in a *while!*  Will be writing it up shortly.   
      
   --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05   
    * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)