From: somethingwitty@optusnet.com.au   
      
   in a article I read when solaris  was release in OZ the interviewer ask have   
   you ever had therapy he answered yes when his marriage broke up then he went   
   on to say there a times when you need it...so he had the therapy maybe this   
   is just who he is a skirt chasing drunk who doesn't care what people think   
   as long as he is having fun..   
      
      
      
      
   "Donna"  wrote in message   
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   > Your post = Exactly!   
   >   
   > It's like he's aging physically but not emotionally. Maybe it all does   
   > go back to his family like you say - they do seem to want to "appear"   
   > perfect and do seem to put a lot of energy into being perfect and   
   > saying the perfect things. It could be thought of as phony on one   
   > level. I'm sure they're nice people, but it's a little odd that they   
   > want to be perceived that way. AND GEORGE DOES THE SAME THING!!! "I   
   > couldn't be happier" as he loves saying (no matter what's going on).   
   > That's all he wants people to think about him. If he's so happy, why   
   > is he such a drunk? Why does he need alcohol for every part of his   
   > life? He used to say certain times (like the holidays) were the   
   > "drinking portion of his year". Well, last week he was drinking beer   
   > between takes on Oceans 12. He's even drinking at work now. His   
   > alcohol is a huge problem whether he wants to admit it or not.   
   > Sometimes I think this is the reason he might not be able to attract a   
   > quality woman. Because think about it, why aren't more successful and   
   > intelligent women who have access to him, pursuing him? None of them   
   > are. Only cheap wannabe actresses are pursuing him.   
   >   
   > And George said his family wasn't good at discussing things honestly   
   > (or something like that) so maybe he never learned how to open up with   
   > woman. The fact that he can open up for his buddies means nothing,   
   > because most men don't require the same level of intimacy or honesty   
   > in their friendships.   
   >   
   > They say a lot of people's problems in relationships are related to   
   > their opposite sex parent, which means there could be something with   
   > George's Mom that we don't know. Or even the whole abuse thing that   
   > someone brought up isn't completely out question. Who knows, maybe   
   > there is something like that George has been repressing. I don't know.   
   > But I do think therapy would help him ALOT and I hope before he even   
   > dares marry again, he gets a better understanding of himself. I mean,   
   > the fact that the man could get an erection over someone like Krista   
   > who's an empty-headed "goofball" (as she likes to be called) or over a   
   > skanky "model" like Lisa (who looks like she's on heroin) shows   
   > something very negative about him. I'm really worried that he's also   
   > very empty underneath that sexy smile and eyes. I really worry about   
   > his depth of character.   
   >   
   >   
   > > > George is either totally f**** up or he just doesn't give a damn.  I'm   
   > > > still trying to decide which one.  He just came out of a relationship   
   > > > with a skanky whore who screwed him in anyway she could.  He knew she   
   > > > was trash, he knew she was using him, and if he didn't it was pointed   
   > > > out to him countless times.  But, he still screws her....hides her,   
   > > > but screws her.  There is truth in what Krista says..."he disrespected   
   > > > me".  I can't stand the girl, she doesn't deserve any respect IMO, but   
   > > > if you feel like she has to be hidden but you still want to screw her,   
   > > > that is disrespect...and that is exactly what George did.  It was   
   > > > disrespectful to her and to himself.   
   > > >   
   > > > You would have thought he would have learned a lesson.  His reputation   
   > > > went down quite a few notches.  But then he hooks up with the second   
   > > > biggest skank in his history.  I don't care if it is for just one   
   > > > night, that is so STUPID!!!  History has shown that she doesn't mind   
   > > > spreading their business to whomever she can.  She's just like Krista,   
   > > > only not quite as evil or manipulative, but it's still there. The man   
   > > > has stated countless times in interviews that his privacy is important   
   > > > to him...he gets screwed, embarrassed, etc. by Krista, but then goes   
   > > > to the same thing.  1+1 does not equal 2 to this man.   
   > > >   
   > > > He makes such careful decisions regarding his work, why not women?   
   > > >   
   > > > I agree, he doesn't seem to get emotionally attached at all to any of   
   > > > the women he dates.  He only feels emotionally about "the guys" and if   
   > > > he ever feels emotional about a woman (ex. Julianna Marguilles) she is   
   > > > quickly put in the "only friends" category.  The women that he dates   
   > > > are objects...they are there to screw and to have fun with....no   
   > > > emotional ties at all.  I think this is why it didn't last long with   
   > > > Renee....he actually had some respect for her.   
   > > >   
   > > > Some of this may go back to his past failed relationships.  He dated   
   > > > "good" girls in the past...they all failed....and he seemed to take it   
   > > > a lot harder than most....ie.  the ulcers, sleeping on his buddies   
   > > > couch, etc.  Even at this, the heartache seemed to be because he   
   > > > failed, not because he had feelings for the woman.   
   > > >   
   > > > I think a lot of this has to do with his upbringing.  I think his   
   > > > parents were so strict that when he was finally released he went wild.   
   > > > His sister seems to have turned out okay, but with a personality type   
   > > > like George's it sent him in a totally different direction.  This   
   > > > combined with the Hollywood lifestyle spelled disaster.  He has said   
   > > > in interviews that his parents were so strict about church, that he   
   > > > has backed away from any of that.  And his family, although I think   
   > > > they are good people, tend to put on a "we are perfect" face.  I was   
   > > > watching a show about George and they interviewed his parents about   
   > > > George's college days....his mom said that George spent his college   
   > > > savings at the coffee shop.  C'mon...George spent the money on sex,   
   > > > booze, and drugs and they knew it.  And George's dad constantly told   
   > > > George that he was stupid for going into show business.  There's got   
   > > > to be some sweetness to George succeeding...I'm sure he feels he got   
   > > > one up on his dad.   
   > > >   
   > > > George doesn't want to put the effort into developing relationships   
   > > > with women....he just wants the screw.  It's already clear that Lisa   
   > > > schemed this whole "get together".  I wouldn't doubt if she made up   
   > > > the robbery story just to be able to get back in contact with him.   
   > > > The timing was perfect...she had broken up with that CSI guy, she has   
   > > > no career, he just broke up with Krista, and he'll be in Europe.   
   > > > Sounds fishy to me!!!  She also had to have tipped the press in order   
   > > > for us to be able to see that lovely photo of her leaving the hotel.   
   > > > But, he just doesn't get it.  George may seem happy, but I doubt he is   
      
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