From: somethingwitty@optusnet.com.au   
      
   "Donna"  wrote in message   
   news:e0cc9d05.0402221734.67466237@posting.google.com...   
   > > OMG, I cannot believe what I'm reading. I feel sorry for you. I feel   
   sorry that   
   > > you actually settle for this shit. You're probably thinking "this is   
   just how   
   > > men are". Your husband likes to watch naked women having sex. And you   
   have no   
   > > problem with this. You don't even care that this is CHEATING. Yes,   
   cheating   
   > > doesn't begin when a husband puts his penis inside another woman. It   
   doesn't   
   > > even begin when a husband takes his pants off with another woman.   
   Cheating   
   > > BEGINS when the thoughts are entertained and indulged. It's disgusting   
   that you   
   > > sit there like the little woman putting up with this shit. You've been   
   mocked   
   > > to your face and you don't even KNOW it. Your husband has shown how   
   little he   
   > > respects your dignity as a woman and how little he values his vows to   
   *you*.   
   > > And you don't even care.   
   >   
   > Wow! I normally agree with you Keanu, but maybe they both like   
   > watching stuff like that. I don't think it's considered cheating if   
   > it's something that they share as a couple. I'm not married but if my   
   > husband wanted to watch porn and if I agreed to watch too, I wouldn't   
   > think it was cheating. Even if I didn't want to watch it but he did, I   
   > still wouldn't think of it as cheating as much as something that's   
   > disrespectful to me. That's why it's important to know before you get   
   > married what type of entertainment you like to watch. If you don't   
   > want porn in your house, then you shouldn't marry a man who likes   
   > porn.   
   >   
   > I don't think NK has a problem with porn, I think she's just giving us   
   > an idea of what Krista's porns are like, since most of us probably   
   > haven't seen them. Personally, the only "porn" I've seen was actually   
   > in college (beleive it or not) in a Human Sexuality and Pop Culture   
   > course. And they showed a lot of it and surprisingly a lot of it was   
   > boring. They showed what's considered XXX rated verses "soft" or   
   > whatever. To me it's all the same, but soft porn just means that   
   > there's no erection shown (hence the term "soft") and therefore no   
   > actual intercourse. Krista did about 7 ot 9 of those films. I think   
   > HBO and Showtime are considered soft too, even though they get pretty   
   > explicit I think. I've even seen some regular R rated films that   
   > seemed very graphic to me. I think anytime the actors touch and lick   
   > and feel each other, to me that's crossing the line over into not just   
   > pretending anymore.   
   >   
   > I guess I can see why men like your hubby think Krista is sexy since   
   > she has the fake boobs and the thin body and so on. But there's   
   > something about her that's very boring and unsexy to me.   
      
      
      
   if  I were married and my hubby came home to watch  porno with me I'd be   
   saying bubby you 've got the wrong house what every happen to the art of   
   conversation.what every happen to romance, Porn watching sounds like a cheap   
   date where the wife  comes in second...place....   
      
   --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05   
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