XPost: soc.men, alt.society.conservatism   
   From: ampersand.the.great@gmail.com   
      
   On 05/19/2014 01:52 PM, Mark Wieber wrote:   
   > *  Often the pedophile is male and over 30 years of age. * Single or   
   > with few friends in his age group. * If married, the relationship is   
   > more "companion" based with no sexual relations. * He is often vague   
   > about time gaps in employment which may indicate a loss in   
   > employment for questionable reasons or possible past incarceration.   
   >   
   > Pedophiles Like Child-like Activities:   
   >   
   > * He is often fascinated with children and child activities appearing   
   > to prefer those activities to adult oriented activities. * He will   
   > often refer to children in pure or angelic terms using descriptives   
   > like innocent, heavenly, divine, pure, and other words that describe   
   > children but seem inappropriate and exaggerated. * He has hobbies   
   > that are child-like such as collecting popular expensive toys,   
   > keeping reptiles or exotic pets, or building plane and car models.   
   >   
   > Pedophiles Often Prefer Children Close to Puberty:   
   >   
   > * Pedophiles often have a specific age of child they target. Some   
   > prefer younger children, some older. * Often his environment or a   
   > special room will be decorated in child-like decor and will appeal to   
   > the age and sex of the child he is trying to entice. * Many   
   > pedophiles often prefer children close to puberty who are sexually   
   > inexperienced, but curious about sex.   
   >   
   > Pedophiles Work Around Children: The pedophile will often be employed   
   > in a position that involves daily contact with children. If not   
   > employed, he will put himself in a position to do volunteer work with   
   > children, often in a supervisory capacity such as sports coaching,   
   > contact sport instruction, unsupervised tutoring or a position where   
   > he has the opportunity to spend unsupervised time with a child. The   
   > Target Child: The pedophile often seeks out shy, handicapped, and   
   > withdrawn children, or those who come from troubled homes or under   
   > privileged homes. He then showers them with attention, gifts,   
   > taunting them with trips to desirable places like amusement parks,   
   > zoo's, concerts, the beach and other such places. Manipulation of the   
   > Innocent: Pedophiles work to master their manipulative skills and   
   > often unleash them on troubled children by first becoming their   
   > friend, building the the child's self esteem. They may refer to the   
   > child as special or mature, appealing to their need to be heard and   
   > understood then entice them with adult type activities that are often   
   > sexual in content such as x-rated movies or pictures. They offer   
   > them alcohol or drugs to hamper their ability to resist activities or   
   > recall events that occurred. Stockholm Syndrome : It is not unusual   
   > for the child to develop feelings for the predator and desire their   
   > approval and continued acceptance. They will compromise their innate   
   > ability to decipher good and bad behavior, ultimately justifying the   
   > criminal's bad behavior out of sympathy and concern for the adults   
   > welfare. This is often compared to Stockholm Syndrome - when victims   
   > become attached emotionally to their captors. The Single Parent: Many   
   > times pedophiles will develop a close relationship with a single   
   > parent in order to get close to their children. Once inside the home,   
   > they have many opportunities to manipulate the children -- using   
   > guilt, fear, and love to confuse the child. If the child's parent   
   > works, it offers the pedophile the private time needed to abuse the   
   > child.   
      
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