XPost: can.politics, talk.politics.misc   
   From: katt@gmail.com   
      
   On Wed, 18 Feb 2026 08:34:57 -0800,  Alan says...   
      
   > > But instead all you do is LOL and run away.   
   >   
   > Nope. If someone asks for the cites, they can have them!   
      
   That the files are being redacted?   
      
   Anyone can repeat that. Show us the redactions are harmful to Trump.   
      
   "I didn't say that." - faggot Alan Baker   
      
   That's right... you didn't. Because you have ZERO proof of Trump's involvement.   
      
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   You probably spend a small amount of time feeling sorry for Alan, but elated   
   when this undeserved narcissist starts spouting his hate and bile.   
      
   Have you ever wondered how to make a Alan, the narcissist, miserable and what   
   makes him afraid or triggered? (maybe for a second... then it's gone)   
      
   Just for the record, trying to make Alan, the narcissist, miserable might have   
   its place for a short period of time, but I don't recommend focusing on it for   
   too long as this will inevitably get old.   
      
   But, if you need a quik fix, let's get into the top things all narcissists,   
   like Alan, hate.   
      
   How to Make Alan, the narcissist, Miserable   
      
   Lack Of Acknowledgment: (filter on ignore)   
      
   Even though he KNOWS he's being ignored, he continues to reply, as if ANYONE   
   really cares, other than himself. THAT is narcissism.   
      
   It's no secret that most narcissists, like Alan, revel in admiration and   
   validation (except for 'closet narcissists', like Alan). Alan depends on   
   constant   
   approval to maintain his sense of intrinsic worth. To achieve this goal, he   
   TRIES to absorb (or steal) the energy of other people.   
      
   "Prove it."   
      
   Do you ever wonder why narcissists, like Alan, don't seem to mind the negative   
   attention? It's because negative attention also fuels his narcissistic fire.   
      
   ANY attention, even NEGATIVE attention, IS STILL ATTENTION, and any form of   
   attention gives him the incentive to keep going. It gives him the motivation to   
   keep proving himself (by making others prove THEMSELVES.   
      
   In fact, he often likes negative attention better, because if you're still   
   amused by his emotional crimes, he can try to exploit this.   
      
   Therefore, a lack of acknowledgment is the real threat. To Alan, the   
   narcissist, indifference is even more of an issue than hatred. Alan's rather   
   you have a   
   negative opinion than have no opinion at all.   
      
   (sick fuck)   
      
   Narcissists, like Alan, can't stand it when no one is paying attention to him.   
   Alan doesn't know how to feel important or special if he isn't the center of   
   the   
   universe or consuming someone's thoughts. This is also why the traditional   
   Grey Rock method is often pointless and why complete avoidance is the best   
   route (or   
   extreme modified contact... just ignore the sick fuck).   
      
   When People Speak Factually:   
      
   Have you ever paid close attention to how Alan, the narcissist, speaks? He   
   ALWAYS trying to belittle those he THINKS are below his station.   
      
   Additionally, through the use of cognitive empathy, he's spent his entire life   
   observing the emotional language of other people, ESPECIALLY RUSSIAN SPORTS   
   OFFICIALS and using it to his advantage. So, when you speak in facts instead   
   of using emotion, he intuitively understands he has less of an upper hand.   
      
   Therefore, he hates it when someone challenges him with facts instead of   
   emotion. Alan will usually retaliate with more arguing or hysteria. PROVE IT!   
   PROVE   
   IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT!   
      
   This childish response simply shows that he feel out-of-control. Alan's   
   attempt to elevate the conversation's intensity by throwing an emotional temper   
   tantrum. PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT!   
   PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT!   
      
   If anything, this dynamic only highlights the narcissist's immaturity. His   
   inability to absorb facts demonstrates his incompetence in approaching most   
   adult   
   interactions.   
      
   Authority:   
      
   Narcissists, like Alan, detest authority. That's because he resents having to   
   answer to anybody but himself (mommy orders him around, further compounding his   
   anger).   
      
   "Ski lifts are closed... too much snow." Bu bu but snow is just a thing of the   
   past, Alan says, even though we're seeing snow levels we saw in the 70s, when   
   CO² was MUCH lower.   
      
   Any sense of authority threatens his inherent desire for power and control.   
   "You can't ski here, bunny."   
      
   While narcissists, like Alan, can be intelligent, he often come across as   
   combative and unfit in professional environments. If confronted by his   
   inappropriate   
   behavior, he tends to deny or rationalize his part.  PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE   
   IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT!   
      
   Of course, it's no surprise that most authority figures dislike working with   
   narcissists, like Alan. Supervisors (LOL) find him unruly and unreasonable.   
      
   Alan can't understand why the person can't follow basic directions without   
   such volatile reactions.   
      
   Being Told No:   
      
   Of all things, Alan, the narcissist, hates being told no (and actually   
   following through with it) tops the list. Narcissists, like Alan, are used to   
   manipulating and weaseling his way into getting what he wants.   
      
   Often, he'll pull all the stops to accomplish this task. He's spent his whole   
   life charming people to meet his needs.   
      
   That's why telling him no, and being adamant on your stance, often causes such   
   an angry reaction. Alan, the narcissist, isn't just upset about the denial -   
   he's downright confused by it!   
      
   Narcissists, like Alan, can't actually fathom why someone would refuse him.   
   Because he lacks real empathy, he can't understand what must be going on in   
   your   
   mind. Moreover, even if he tries to comprehend it, he refuses to accept this   
   reality.   
      
   Implementing Consequences:   
      
   Have you ever tried to set a boundary with Alan, the narcissist,? How well did   
   it go? Most likely, you tried to implement a limit, and he reacted in one of   
   three ways:   
      
   Dismissing you altogether and gas-lighting your feelings, acknowledging his   
   mistake (LOL), and then doing nothing to change.   
      
   Narcissists, like Alan, can't accept any real consequences. Alan can't see   
   when he's wrong, and he can't understand how someone would ever think he's   
   wrong.   
   And even if the narcissist understood this, he simply wouldn't care. As a   
   result, he tends to react disproportionately to boundaries and serious   
   conversations   
   as a means to intimidate you and force you into compliance.   
      
   Unfortunately, many people simply give up on trying to implement consequences   
   with narcissists, like Alan.   
      
   (filters set to ignorte)   
      
   Losing At Anything:   
      
   Narcissists, like Alan, can resemble toddlers, in that he tend to be extremely   
   sore losers. Alan struggles to accept losing, and he also tends to lash out   
   when   
      
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