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|    Bradley K. Sperman to All    |
|    Children of Obama voters: "These are the    |
|    06 Sep 16 07:40:19    |
      XPost: alt.politics.economics, alt.politics.obama, sac.politics       XPost: soc.culture.usa       From: bksperman@outlook.com              My sisters and I were going hungry. We lived off of ramen       noodles for weeks at a time; we didn’t know what my mom did with       the EBT money for food. We became fatigued and skinny. During       those weeks of living in paranoia, my mom acted like life was       dandy, still buying liquor and marijuana just for her boyfriend       and herself. I had to put a stop to worrying about my life. I       came to a conclusion that the only way that I could be happy and       stable is to move on when we got evicted for the 5th time in 3       years. At age 13, I wanted to see what life could give me, even       if it meant living like a nomad and bouncing to house to house.       … I moved out.              — Gladys Thompson              Gladys Thompson became homeless before she was old enough to       drive or hold a job. She remembers begging for food and water,       and pleading with friends for a place to sleep. And she is not       alone: More than 1.3 million U.S. students were homeless in 2013-       2014, twice the number who were homeless before the collapse of       the housing market and subsequent recession.              [The number of U.S. homeless students has doubled since before       the recession]              Homeless youth spend more energy surviving than kids who have a       stable place to live. They miss more class. They are more likely       to struggle academically and less likely to graduate from high       school. And according to a report on homeless youth released       this week by GradNation — which has led a long-running, national       campaign to shrink the high school dropout rate — the majority       of homeless students feel as if they cannot even tell anyone at       school about their situation.              They feel invisible. Or, as Gladys Thompson put it: “I cried for       days and nights. I was so hurt that people would leave me in the       streets.”              Now advocates and federal officials are seeking to draw       attention to the plight of America’s homeless students,       including to what educators can do help, from providing mentors       and emotional support to easing homeless children’s transition       when they have to change schools.              John Bridgeland co-authored the GradNation report after seeing a       documentary on homeless youth that opened his eyes to the       profound challenges they face.              “I realized, oh my God, we’ve been working on the high school       dropout epidemic for more than a decade, and minorities and low-       income students and students with disabilities and English       language learners — all these pops have been very high on our       radar screen,” Bridgeland said. “But homeless students were       nowhere.”              The report, which included surveys of homeless youth, found that       three-quarters have been homeless more than once in their lives,       42 percent have dropped out of school at some point, and half       had slept in a car, park, abandoned building, bus station or       other public place. More than half — 62 percent — said their       schools did a fair or poor job helping them stay in school, and       58 percent said their schools did not connect them with an       outside organization for help with housing or other issues.              [Coming of age in a city coming apart]              The new federal education law — the Every Student Succeeds Act —       may help bring a new focus to the plight of homeless youth. The       law requires that the performance and graduation rates of       homeless children be reported separately, which advocates hope       will spur schools, districts and states to come up with new ways       to support them and help them stay on track.              [Obama signs new K-12 education law]              Education Secretary John King Jr. met with several young people       — including Thompson — who experienced homelessness during their       K-12 careers, and who beat the odds and are now in college. He       wanted to hear what their schools had done well and not so well       in terms of helping them overcome the obstacles they faced. He       said the conversation will help shape guidance that the       department sends to schools this summer, outlining what they can       do to better serve children who are in unstable housing or are       homeless.              “One young woman said, ‘The fact that I was missing school, and       late to school, and not turning in assignments, was a way that I       was calling for help, and I wish that someone had intervened,'”       King said. It’s not just schools that have a responsibility to       ease the lives of homeless youth, he said, so do local housing       authorities and transportation departments. But schools can make       a difference.              The students who met with King were all winners of scholarships       from the National Association for the Education of Homeless       Children and Youth (NAEHCY), an advocacy group based in       Washington, D.C. Three of them spoke to The Washington Post       about their lives and the messages they think policymakers need       to hear.              Gladys Thompson is now 20 years old and studying to be a nurse       practitioner at the Pennsylvania College of Health Sciences. She       said that in her experience, teachers need more training in       helping students who are dealing with homelessness and extreme       poverty.              “You have these new teachers and they’re put in inner-city       schools and they don’t know how to deal with the demographics,”       Thompson said. They need to better understand how to approach       people who have been abused, people who are living in shelters,       people who are being tempted by — or are members of — gangs,she       said. “We need more training.”              Jamie Talley, 21, said that she first became homeless at age 2,       when her mother left an abusive partner. They moved in with her       grandparents, and then continued to move: By fifth grade, Talley       had attended seven different schools.              When she was 17, she said, a fight led her mother’s then-       boyfriend to tell her she had to leave.              “I was pushed out into the world and left to survive on my own,”       she wrote in her NAEHCY scholarship essay. She couch-surfed at       friends’ houses, then started renting a room and working full-       time to pay her bills.              “In the beginning, I had lost hope,” she wrote. “I thought that       I had no choice but to forget about school and try to find a job       that would enable me to care for myself. I had given up on the       possibilities for me to become somebody. Thankfully, there was a       special teacher in my life.”              That teacher became her support system, helping her get onto       Medicaid and telling her over and over that education was her       way out. Talley is now studying to be a teacher at Wayland       Baptist University in west Texas.              She said she wants the federal government to make it easier for       homeless students who are applying for financial aid to prove       that they are homeless and living independently from their       parents. Currently, she said, legal emancipation is an expensive       process that homeless kids can’t afford.              And she wants teachers in K-12 schools to ask questions, and to       be sensitive to the fact that their students might have good       reasons for their behavior. She said she had a college-       preparation class that required many forms to be signed by              [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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