From: someone@anywheret.net   
      
   "JimD"  wrote in message news:2018051813205168333-email@nowherecom...   
      
   > Or, rather than runing away, how about I learn to act like a manager.   
      
   A manager? sounds like what they really need is a NANNY!!!   
      
   MENTALLY UNSTABLE seems to be the best description!   
      
   First they crank up when it's *your* hearing that's at risk, but when you   
   eliminate that risk, suddenly it's too loud for *them*!!!   
      
   But don't knock bands because they Obviously have no idea of what a band   
   really is!!!   
      
   > No way in any organization could or would you try to get agreement on   
   > everything. Let the people who know specialties do what they do.  Under   
   > stand that concept.   
      
   That part is fine. Diversity means versatility and capability...but ONLY   
   *IF* they FIRST Truly Understand and *practice* COOPERATION...because a band   
   is a TEAM!...and *Must* Literally Work in CONCERT!!   
      
   > And, decide that as long as I'm calling the shots, I'll make the choices.   
   > Don't like that ?   Find a new group to play with / argue with.   
      
   That's almost like demanding that they actually GROW UP! ;)   
      
   > There's can be only one boss, and right now that's me. I need to act like   
   > that.  If they don't want to go along, whatever.  I'd be just as happy   
   > without the headaches.   
      
   That' because being a Nanny for big Immature Spoiled Brats is a Bummer!   
      
   > The reasoning behind this is that not everyone has the same expertise. Or   
   > tastes.   
      
   Or MATURITY!!!   
      
   > Like, I'm not letting our non singing drummer decide what keys songs   
   > should be in.   
      
   Did he actually want to do that?   
   In view of all the weirdness lately, I was wondering.   
      
   > Or have a say in much of anything else where failure due to ill informed,   
   > poorly thought out decisions would land on someone elses shoulders .....   
   > mine mostly.   
      
      
      
   Jim   
      
   Maybe they should get more *serious* about getting involved in such things   
   because it seems downright Bizarre that such incompetence in those matters   
   wouldn't in some way be reflected in the band's performance as well.   
      
   Ouisie   
      
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