From: someone@anywheret.net   
      
   "JimD"  wrote in message news:2018101722205952123-email@nowherecom...   
      
   > Band girl says she can hear things I can't quite.  So maybe less tinnitus   
   > ?   
      
   But if she can hear such things, why does she listen to the advice of others   
   instead of her own ears?   
      
   > We were listening to piped in music today as we set up the gear for a   
   > community center duo gig.  She said she could hear the drums on one song,   
   > and I couldn't.  Just couldn't.  Ah, but then she commented that " did we   
   > want to play at that level ? ". As in, she doesn't WANT to play at a level   
   > people could talk over. Even tho this place was serving snacks at the   
   > tables.  She wants to be the center .... it's an ego thing.   
      
   She wants to be too loud for customers to hear each other when they're   
   talking? Can't be any good reason there.   
      
   > We had a good gig, by the way.  Things went very well.  The volume was   
   > somewhere between where I'd like it and where she would.  She did go out   
   > in the audience on a tune. Said afterwards the volume was fine. Duh.  Like   
   > I don't know that already ..... her problem is she believes those who say   
   > they can't hear us ( none were there today ) rather than trust me or the   
   > level meters.   
      
      
   JimD   
      
   Nothing like RE-revealing the obvious ;)   
      
   Ouisie   
      
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