From: someone@anywheret.net   
      
   "JimD"  wrote in message news:2017021922093427482-email@nowherecom...   
      
   > the big point is, it shouldn't matter. the " why " of it should never   
   > enter into it.  if someone isn't cutting it, get rid of them.   
      
   Life is too short to wait for them to get their act together, particularly   
   after all the years of putting up with it in the past.   
      
   > ok, that's easy.   
      
   Maybe not all that easy, but at least straight forward.   
      
   > Problem is, people like that, if they are intentionally sabotaging the   
   > work, do it quietly, and no one realizes the damage until it's done.  I   
   > knew a guitar player once who would be fine at rehearsals, and yet on   
   > stage ALWAYS screwed up. And ALWAYS in the same ways. He was doing it   
   > deliberately,   
      
   I'd dump someone like that so fast!   
      
   > then you should be a solo act. the only sure way you'll get everything   
   > done right .... by doing it yourself.   
      
   I've done it before - only my keyboard and a mic - play piano and sing...too   
   lonely!   
   Music is for being shared, particularly with a Soulmate!   
      
   > We don't really do ultimatums.  More like just quietly make the problem   
   > expendable.  Then wait for an opportunity to leave then on the roadside   
   > somewhere ... haha.   
      
      
   Jim   
      
   Make the punishment fit the  crime, I like that ;)   
   If they want to be sneaky and sabotage the band, they deserve to find   
   themselves on some roadside...but they should think of themselves as being   
   very fortunate because had they pulled their CRAP in something where the   
   stakes are higher, they just might find themselves lying by the roadside   
   with a bullet in their head!   
      
   Ouisie   
      
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