From: litewave99@gmail.com   
      
   On Monday, May 7, 2018 at 2:23:09 PM UTC+2, luvprog wrote:   
   >    
   > Litewave...But wouldn't thinking help someone who is drowning in feelings?    
   >    
   > Thinking about it is what caused the trauma in the first place.. to stop   
   thinking about   
   > It...gives peace..   
   > That's why I stopped thinking about telling the Enigma, I was causing grief    
   > Stopping thinking about a bad situation...ends it..but maybe just   
   temporarily, it's always there   
   > But you keep brushing it away because it's so painful.   
      
   Well, you did think about it a lot over the years. You constructed a whole   
   conspiracy theory about musicians who want to hurt you and musicians who want   
   to help you. I suppose that this theory gave you temporary relief but in the   
   end it didn't help you.    
   Wrong thinking may give temporary joy but in the end it doesn't solve the   
   problem and causes more pain. That doesn't mean that thinking should be   
   avoided; it needs to be corrected so that it better corresponds to reality.   
      
   Isn't it true that the pain started when you went to meet Carl at an ELP   
   concert after you heard Affairs of the Heart? You still loved him, after all   
   those years, and that song contained descriptions of a woman that fit you, so   
   you started to believe    
   that he still loved you. Full of excitement you went to meet him, only to be   
   rejected. Wasn't that the moment when your world turned upside down?   
      
   --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05   
    * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)