From: mdsullivan@rogers.comPOST   
      
   On 7/7/2011 5:13 AM, Laurel wrote:   
   > Two-timing to me is two-timing. My rule (though never had to enforce it   
   > before now) is one strike and you're out. My girlfriend thinks it's   
   > possible that he's not actually done anything but just testing me. I   
   > figure it's all bullshit in the end. Whether cheating, or just giving   
   > the appearance of, it's all the same to me. Man, was I ever taken in.   
   >   
   > Advice, anecdotes, anything from the man corner?   
   >   
   > I'll be back tomorrow - going to a girlfriend's and to try and numb the   
   > pain. The only big question I have remaining is what in the hell did I   
   > ever do in my life to deserve this?   
      
   Without knowing more (particularly if it was actual cheating or some   
   bullshit game), my immediate reaction is that he either did what he did   
   with a willful disregard to you getting hurt by it; or he never knew you   
   well enough to be able to predict how it would hurt you.  Either way,   
   sounds like a deal breaker to me - cut all ties and never regret it.   
   Shitty that you wasted time on him, and shitty that you have to go   
   through this now. In the long run, it's his loss. Best of luck.   
      
   -Matt S.   
      
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