From: ratata@yeahright.fu   
      
   "Laurel" reported:   
      
   > Two-timing to me is two-timing. My rule (though never had to enforce it   
   > before now) is one strike and you're out. My girlfriend thinks it's   
   > possible that he's not actually done anything but just testing me. I   
   > figure it's all bullshit in the end. Whether cheating, or just giving the   
   > appearance of, it's all the same to me. Man, was I ever taken in.   
      
   Insight from the male point of view:  We're typically too thick to test.   
   That's a girl thing.  We might play games to fuck with your mind, but   
   testing boundaries isn't one of them.  My thoughts are that he was sending a   
   clear message that he is not too serious about the situation.  Whatever the   
   agreement was, clearly he had a different POV with regard to its   
   enforcement.  Usually when a guy cheats early in the relationship it means   
   that it was getting too real for him and this was his way of maintaining an   
   identity independent of the relationship.  That, or he's just a douche whose   
   addicted to drama and wants a girl crying over him because it makes him feel   
   like he's worth something that he suspects he isn't.   
      
   >   
   > Advice, anecdotes, anything from the man corner?   
      
   Advice?  Uh...you sound like you've already answered your own non-questions.   
   It is a deal breaker.  His loss because you're ubber-cool and you like Rush.   
   None of that takes away the pain you're feeling, nor should it.  Let   
   yourself heal and you'll be ready again soon enough.   
      
   >   
   > I'll be back tomorrow - going to a girlfriend's and to try and numb the   
   > pain. The only big question I have remaining is what in the hell did I   
   > ever do in my life to deserve this?   
      
   Karma doesn't necessarily play in to this, Laurel.  You know that.  You just   
   learned a fucked up lesson.  It hurts just like it is supposed to.  I know I   
   owe you a call.  Let me land on this totally stupid fuckin' move I'm doing   
   right now and we'll chat.  Keep your chin up, dude.  You've made it this far   
   without this clown and he doesn't realize what he just lost (yet).  Post his   
   Facebook name and I'll get a bunch of my hot female friends to buddy up with   
   him over the course of a couple of months...then they'll wall bomb his ass   
   with comments about his penis size, his obscene emails to them, and why   
   exactly does he insist that getting dildo fucked on Chatroulette doesn't   
   make him ghey.   
      
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