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      CACHE ARCHIVE ARCHIVED "HOW TO GET RID OF A PSYCHOPATH"               "Cuss like Tourette's and Act Crazy" (the psychologist suggested to "act       crazy" important to "act silly like a cartoon not crazy so social interaction       and function not deleted, one of the few times Kenneth Martin Dolan would       actually correct psychology)        AS PROPER NOT IMPROPER reaction to mass mass mass population sociopathy and       psychopathy               IN THE EVENT OF MASS MASS MASS POPULATION SOCIOPATHY AND PSYCHOPATHY AS SEEN       IN PHOTO WHERE MASS MASS MASS POPULATIONS ARE CLAIMED MAKE FORCED LOVE INSIDES       OF ANUS TO PUNISH SEX, THE GOAL IN BEHAVIOR IS NOT "TO SET A GOOD ROLE MODEL       AND/OR "EARN AND/OR        WORSHIP" THEIR LOVE AND ADMIRATION BY A 100% CHANCE COUNTERPSYCHOPATH AND       COUNTERSOCIOPATH (REF. MMPI Pd 40 & 46 MACI < 65 TBV 90% MRI CT AS BORN 0%       PSYCHOPATH AND SOCIOPATH)              3 Ways to Get a Narcissist to Leave You Alone       By Kim Saeed / 88 COMMENTS       Share       178       Pin       160       Share       15       Tweet       +1       353 SHARES       Narcissists can be quite bothersome. If you’re mired in a relationship with       one, you may feel you’ve ceased to exist because you can barely excuse       yourself to the restroom without passing a Bill in Congress. Not to mention       that if your Narcissist        is overt, you’re forced to deal with tantrums that make a two-year old seem       like a Zen master.              Every day, readers around the world find my site by searching “how to get a       Narcissist to leave you alone”. While I don’t know each person’s unique       circumstances, what I do know is how to get rid of a Narcissist. Below, I       share three effective        strategies in the hopes that you, too, can become Narc-free and regain your       ability to speak in complete sentences.              1. No Contact              There’s no way of getting around this one. In most cases, the overt Narc       won’t leave you alone because you’ve left lines of communication open. In       this case, you’ll need to be the one who blocks them because they likely       will not block        themselves, unless you’ve become an absolute basket-case with no money, no       resources, and no hint of emotion left. In short, unless you’ve become a       Zombie. After all, even negative supply is better than none in the       Narcissist’s mind. They’ve        been known to check in simply to incite in their Discards a nuclear meltdown,       only to hang up feeling refreshed and invigorated. Why leave yourself open       for that?              Even if they’ve found new supply, they usually cannot resist knowing that       they still have power over you. So, while you’re sitting around with a       white-knuckle grip on your phone, waiting for them to send you a text (with       three weeks having passed        since the last one), they might SMS you with “Hey” just to see what your       reaction will be. That doesn’t mean they’ve been looking at engagement       rings or anything, it just means their new supply is at work and can’t talk       on the phone, but the        Narc needs to feed their ego a little snack.              Starving their ego will force them to find another source of supply. You can       do that by going No Contact.              2. Show no emotion              Narcs are persistent little critters. Sometimes, even when faced with No       Contact, they don’t believe you mean it so they may feel inclined to “calm       your anxieties” by showing up at your favorite coffee shop, even though       it’s 25 miles out of        their way. In this case, you’ll need to reward their efforts by pretending       you don’t see them. This may trigger them to come over (uninvited) to your       table. Even then, they’re not there!              They’re counting on the advantage of being in a public place…where they       believe you’ll have no choice but to acknowledge their existence. When they       initiate a conversation, assume the stance of one of the neighboring chairs,       remaining completely        indifferent to the Narc’s presence.              If they still don’t take the hint, pick up your coffee, exit the coffee       shop, and proceed to get in your vehicle and drive away. Kind of like one of       the characters in The Seventh Sense who can’t see dead people. The Narc       will begin to wonder if he        imagined the whole interaction, which equals instant karma for all their       gaslighting attempts. *fist bump*              This may feel uncomfortable for Empathic people, or those who dislike       conflict, but it’s important to remember the reason you’re being forced to       behave this way.              3. Pretend you’ve developed Tourette’s Syndrome              This is especially effective if you’ve been submissive and quiet during the       relationship. If you find yourself forced to engage in conversation with the       Narcissist, throw in a few unexpected obscenities, at higher levels of volume       than the rest of        your response. It might look something like this:              “I have a few pieces of #@*%# mail for you. Should I have your mail       forwarded, or should I #@*%# or #@*%# ? (This should be done without changing       your facial expression).              If the first two steps don’t send the Narcissist packing, this last one       surely will. Giving them the impression that you no longer have control over       your speech should put to rest any remaining agendas they may have for       blame-shifting and gaslighting.         They won’t realize you’ve simply adopted one of their behaviors.              ©2013 Kim Saeed and Let Me Reach              https://letmereach.com/2014/05/29/3-ways-to-get-a-narcissist-to-       eave-you-alone/              How to get rid of a psychopath               If you’ve gotten tangled up with a boyfriend or a psycho girlfriend, or even       discover that your partner has psychotic tendencies, there is usually a way       out of the predicament without consulting the authorities or the issuance of a       restraining order.        That is only necessary in the most severe cases. Check out the following tips       on how to get rid of a psychopath in your life.               Extricate himself from the life of the psychopath. No call or email and avoid       your calls. Always check caller ID on your landline or cell phone. Keep all       emails and instant messages sent, but they do not respond. If a worst case       scenario occurs you have        all the evidence you need for a court case. Most psychopaths or emotionally       disturbed people disappear if they refuse contact.               Be friendly to the irrational part if you find them and can not get out. If he       yells at you or admonish you, will only make you seem like the psychopath. If       you are boiling inside, even keep calm. Do not do or say anything that will       give him ammunition        against you.                      [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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