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   "Cuss like Tourette's and Act Crazy"  (the psychologist suggested to "act   
   crazy" important to "act silly like a cartoon not crazy so social interaction   
   and function not deleted, one of the few times Kenneth Martin Dolan would   
   actually correct psychology)    
   AS PROPER NOT IMPROPER reaction to mass mass mass population sociopathy and   
   psychopathy    
      
   IN THE EVENT OF MASS MASS MASS POPULATION SOCIOPATHY AND PSYCHOPATHY AS SEEN   
   IN PHOTO WHERE MASS MASS MASS POPULATIONS ARE CLAIMED MAKE FORCED LOVE INSIDES   
   OF ANUS TO PUNISH SEX, THE GOAL IN BEHAVIOR IS NOT "TO SET A GOOD ROLE MODEL   
   AND/OR "EARN AND/OR    
   WORSHIP" THEIR LOVE AND ADMIRATION BY A 100% CHANCE COUNTERPSYCHOPATH AND   
   COUNTERSOCIOPATH (REF. MMPI Pd 40 & 46 MACI < 65 TBV 90% MRI CT AS BORN 0%   
   PSYCHOPATH AND SOCIOPATH)   
      
   3 Ways to Get a Narcissist to Leave You Alone   
   By Kim Saeed / 88 COMMENTS   
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   Narcissists can be quite bothersome.  If you’re mired in a relationship with   
   one, you may feel you’ve ceased to exist because you can barely excuse   
   yourself to the restroom without passing a Bill in Congress.  Not to mention   
   that if your Narcissist    
   is overt, you’re forced to deal with tantrums that make a two-year old seem   
   like a Zen master.   
      
   Every day, readers around the world find my site by searching “how to get a   
   Narcissist to leave you alone”.  While I don’t know each person’s unique   
   circumstances, what I do know is how to get rid of a Narcissist.  Below, I   
   share three effective    
   strategies in the hopes that you, too, can become Narc-free and regain your   
   ability to speak in complete sentences.   
      
   1. No Contact   
      
   There’s no way of getting around this one.  In most cases, the overt Narc   
   won’t leave you alone because you’ve left lines of communication open.  In   
   this case, you’ll need to be the one who blocks them because they likely   
   will not block    
   themselves, unless you’ve become an absolute basket-case with no money, no   
   resources, and no hint of emotion left.  In short, unless you’ve become a   
   Zombie.  After all, even negative supply is better than none in the   
   Narcissist’s mind.  They’ve    
   been known to check in simply to incite in their Discards a nuclear meltdown,   
   only to hang up feeling refreshed and invigorated.  Why leave yourself open   
   for that?   
      
   Even if they’ve found new supply, they usually cannot resist knowing that   
   they still have power over you. So, while you’re sitting around with a   
   white-knuckle grip on your phone, waiting for them to send you a text (with   
   three weeks having passed    
   since the last one), they might SMS you with “Hey” just to see what your   
   reaction will be.  That doesn’t mean they’ve been looking at engagement   
   rings or anything, it just means their new supply is at work and can’t talk   
   on the phone, but the    
   Narc needs to feed their ego a little snack.   
      
   Starving their ego will force them to find another source of supply.  You can   
   do that by going No Contact.   
      
   2.  Show no emotion   
      
   Narcs are persistent little critters.  Sometimes, even when faced with No   
   Contact, they don’t believe you mean it so they may feel inclined to “calm   
   your anxieties” by showing up at your favorite coffee shop, even though   
   it’s 25 miles out of    
   their way.  In this case, you’ll need to reward their efforts by pretending   
   you don’t see them.  This may trigger them to come over (uninvited) to your   
   table.  Even then, they’re not there!   
      
   They’re counting on the advantage of being in a public place…where they   
   believe you’ll have no choice but to acknowledge their existence.  When they   
   initiate a conversation, assume the stance of one of the neighboring chairs,   
   remaining completely    
   indifferent to the Narc’s presence.   
      
   If they still don’t take the hint, pick up your coffee, exit the coffee   
   shop, and proceed to get in your vehicle and drive away.  Kind of like one of   
   the characters in The Seventh Sense who can’t see dead people.  The Narc   
   will begin to wonder if he    
   imagined the whole interaction, which equals instant karma for all their   
   gaslighting attempts. *fist bump*   
      
   This may feel uncomfortable for Empathic people, or those who dislike   
   conflict, but it’s important to remember the reason you’re being forced to   
   behave this way.   
      
   3.  Pretend you’ve developed Tourette’s Syndrome   
      
   This is especially effective if you’ve been submissive and quiet during the   
   relationship.  If you find yourself forced to engage in conversation with the   
   Narcissist, throw in a few unexpected obscenities, at higher levels of volume   
   than the rest of    
   your response.  It might look something like this:   
      
   “I have a few pieces of #@*%# mail for you.  Should I have your mail   
   forwarded, or should I #@*%# or #@*%# ?  (This should be done without changing   
   your facial expression).   
      
   If the first two steps don’t send the Narcissist packing, this last one   
   surely will.  Giving them the impression that you no longer have control over   
   your speech should put to rest any remaining agendas they may have for   
   blame-shifting and gaslighting.    
    They won’t realize you’ve simply adopted one of their behaviors.   
      
   ©2013 Kim Saeed and Let Me Reach   
      
   https://letmereach.com/2014/05/29/3-ways-to-get-a-narcissist-to-   
   eave-you-alone/   
      
   How to get rid of a psychopath    
      
   If you’ve gotten tangled up with a boyfriend or a psycho girlfriend, or even   
   discover that your partner has psychotic tendencies, there is usually a way   
   out of the predicament without consulting the authorities or the issuance of a   
   restraining order.    
   That is only necessary in the most severe cases. Check out the following tips   
   on how to get rid of a psychopath in your life.    
      
   Extricate himself from the life of the psychopath. No call or email and avoid   
   your calls. Always check caller ID on your landline or cell phone. Keep all   
   emails and instant messages sent, but they do not respond. If a worst case   
   scenario occurs you have    
   all the evidence you need for a court case. Most psychopaths or emotionally   
   disturbed people disappear if they refuse contact.    
      
   Be friendly to the irrational part if you find them and can not get out. If he   
   yells at you or admonish you, will only make you seem like the psychopath. If   
   you are boiling inside, even keep calm. Do not do or say anything that will   
   give him ammunition    
   against you.    
      
      
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