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|    Lenona to All    |
|    Re: Semi-OT: Dad uses Godwin argument be    |
|    13 Feb 24 09:01:26    |
      From: lenona321@yahoo.com              And here's one more comment that I'm posting separately because of its length:                       McMerseybird:       "A similar thing is sometimes seen in the autistic community. I am very       anti-eugenics, but some people in that community are taking it too far. I once       saw a post somewhere from someone who said that they didn't really want to be       a parent, but they        decided to pass on their autistic genes as a fuck you to eugenics. They       believed that if more autistic people would be born, it would be harder for       non-autistic eugenics supporters to get rid of us.              "My girlfriend and I are autistic. We don't experience the desire to be a       parent. We can't stand children. Parenthood would be our biggest nightmare.       This has NOTHING to do with the fact that we would probably pass on our autism       if we had children. Sadly,        some people in the autistic community accused us of eugenics. They said that       we owe the autistic community children. That we should have children, to make       it harder for non-autistic people to get rid of our kind. One time, someone in       a Facebook group        for autistic people compared my girlfriend and me to Hitler, for practicing       eugenics because we aren't having kids.              "Another common view in the autistic community that is very toxic is how they       are anti-euthanasia. They take their anti-eugenics views too far and see       eugenics when it's not there.              "Where I live, euthanasia is legal, but the rules are very strict. You have to       request euthanasia yourself. Others can't do that for you. You need to have a       diagnosed disorder or illness. And you can only get euthanasia if your       suffering is unbearable        and if there is no reasonable other solution. And even if you meet the legal       requirements, most doctors won't do it. The law doesn't make a difference       between mental health issues or physical health issues, but getting euthanasia       for mental health issues        is almost impossible. Most euthanasia requests are denied."               "Sadly, American autism activists act as if autistic people in the Netherlands       and Belgium are euthanised against their will by the state, requested by the       parents of autistic people. This is total bullshit. First of all, the very few       autistic people who        manage to get the euthanasia they want, really really really want to die and       requested this themselves. So they aren't murdered against their will. Most of       the times, the parents are against it, so the idea that parents want this is       bullshit. This isn't        the state or parents mass murdering autistic people, even though American       activists love to paint it as such. This is about many individuals wanting to       die and a few individuals being lucky enough to get help from a doctor, so       they can die in a peaceful        way instead of suffer for years or hope that a painful suicide attempt is       successful.              "And some extremists even became anti-abortion, because aborting a disabled       fetus would be eugenics.              "Yes, of course people who want to be parents need to accept that they might       get a disabled child. But still, even if someone who wants kids would abort a       disabled fetus, I would NEVER want to interfere with their right to choose.       Their body, their        choice.              "Anti-eugenics views are a good thing. But it sucks when that is taken too       far, to the point where people are anti-childfreedom, anti-euthanasia and       anti-abortion, even if not wanting kids or wanting to die has nothing to do       with eugenics. It's not the        state preventing autistic people from being born or the state murdering       autistic people. This is about individual people who just don't want to be       parents or people who really want to die.              "As anti-eugenics as I am, my pro-choice, pro-bodily autonomy views always       come first. Even if that means that many other autistic people will hate me."                      anna-the-bunny:       "As an autistic person, I genuinely find this sort of thing disturbing. I       suffered a lot during my childhood because of my autism, and that's not       something I'd wish on anyone else. To knowingly force a child to go through       the same thing I did is        unthinkable, especially if my only reason for doing so was 'so there'll be       more autistic people in the world.' "              "If your only goal is the proliferation of autism, congratulations - you're a       eugenicist. You just view different genes as desirable."              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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