From: janice@mailinator.com   
      
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   this.email@dont.work says...   
      
   >I'd been working on having one for 6 months...  I'd read two or three books   
   >on it by then.  That makes all the difference in the world, in terms of   
   >reaction to the experience.  I'd had two minor obes before the big one, but   
   >because I was new to it all, I wasn't sure about them. -- Lonnie   
      
   Yep, being more mature, having done a fair bit of background reading, and   
   actually trying to have the things would make a big difference. :-)   
      
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