From: ibshambat@gmail.com   
      
   There are men who take it very hard when their women leave them. The question   
   to ask such men is, “How did you treat your woman?” Many of these men   
   justify mistreatment of their women by saying that they are bad people. My   
   response to these people is,   
    “If your woman is a bad person, then you should be happy that she is   
   gone.”   
      
   The employed Western men are not at a shortage of good female partners. Every   
   woman in Russia, Thailand and Iran wants to be with such a man. If the women   
   in your society have become jerks as a result of feminism, as some of these   
   men claim, then go for    
   a woman from Russia, Thailand or Iran. I have seen many matches between   
   Western men and Eastern women, and most of them were good ones.   
      
   Women are not all the same. Neither are men. Your wife is not Andrea Dworkin.   
   You should be happy that your wife is not Andrea Dworkin. Some men are just   
   brats. They don’t know how good they have it. They haven’t had to deal   
   with women who are    
   actually bad. Instead they have in their lives women who are beautiful, kind   
   and willing to be good to their men. And all they can think to do is use them   
   as punching bags.   
      
   Of course we see the same thing on the other side. The feminist women have at   
   their disposal the best men out there, and many of them are not good to them.   
   They think that men are bad, in the same way as these men think that women are   
   bad. They haven’t    
   had to deal with men who are actually bad. A man who is actually bad would   
   beat such a woman to death and throw her body to the dogs and think that   
   he’s doing Allah a favor.   
      
   I want to put things into perspective for both sides. Most men who think that   
   women are bad haven’t had to deal with women who are actually bad. Most   
   feminists who think that men are bad haven’t had to deal with men who are   
   actually bad either.    
   Instead they have at their disposal the best people out there. And they are   
   not good to them.   
      
   I used to be an unappreciative brat myself. I learned better. I want more   
   people to make the same choice. Most of the women who are being abused by   
   misogynists are good people. Most of the men who are being abused by feminists   
   are good people as well.    
   Both sides need to know people of the other gender who are actually bad. And   
   then they will be able to appreciate the people in their lives and act to them   
   accordingly.   
      
   --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05   
    * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)