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|    Ilya Shambat to All    |
|    Are the artists narcissistic bums?    |
|    01 Jul 23 17:59:20    |
      From: ibshambat@gmail.com              Some people see artists as narcissistic bums. I seek to contend with that.              The artists I’ve known all worked hard. They worked hard on their art, and       if they weren’t making a living with their art they also worked hard on       whatever else they did to support themselves. Creating good art takes work,       and these efforts must be        respected.              As for narcissism, that is completely wrong. The artists I’ve known were       more, not less, compassionate than the average person. They went to the bother       to understand me instead of passing uninformed judgment. They had about them a       kind of sensitivity        that leads to compassion. And they used that compassion to help all sorts of       people, including people from whom they had nothing to expect in return.              There are narcissists everywhere. I’ve known narcissistic doctors;       narcissistic engineers; narcissistic businessmen; narcissistic military men;       even narcissistic construction workers. All these people thought that they       were the best people in the world.        Most artists I’ve known did not think that they were the best people in the       world. A number of them thought to the contrary. That was the case even when       they were very good people.              Indeed I’ve seen in artists an openness that is the opposite of narcissism.       I once walked into an art class and started reciting poetry, and they welcomed       me. Imagine someone doing that in a meeting of doctors.               So no, artists are neither less hard-working nor more narcissistic than an       average person. And more of them should be treated with respect.              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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