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   Ilya Shambat to All   
   Are the artists narcissistic bums?   
   01 Jul 23 17:59:20   
   
   From: ibshambat@gmail.com   
      
   Some people see artists as narcissistic bums. I seek to contend with that.   
      
   The artists I’ve known all worked hard. They worked hard on their art, and   
   if they weren’t making a living with their art they also worked hard on   
   whatever else they did to support themselves. Creating good art takes work,   
   and these efforts must be    
   respected.   
      
   As for narcissism, that is completely wrong. The artists I’ve known were   
   more, not less, compassionate than the average person. They went to the bother   
   to understand me instead of passing uninformed judgment. They had about them a   
   kind of sensitivity    
   that leads to compassion. And they used that compassion to help all sorts of   
   people, including people from whom they had nothing to expect in return.   
      
   There are narcissists everywhere. I’ve known narcissistic doctors;   
   narcissistic engineers; narcissistic businessmen; narcissistic military men;   
   even narcissistic construction workers. All these people thought that they   
   were the best people in the world.   
    Most artists I’ve known did not think that they were the best people in the   
   world. A number of them thought to the contrary. That was the case even when   
   they were very good people.   
      
   Indeed I’ve seen in artists an openness that is the opposite of narcissism.   
   I once walked into an art class and started reciting poetry, and they welcomed   
   me. Imagine someone doing that in a meeting of doctors.    
      
   So no, artists are neither less hard-working nor more narcissistic than an   
   average person. And more of them should be treated with respect.   
      
   --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05   
    * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)   

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