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|    Ilya Shambat to All    |
|    Demonization of sex offenders    |
|    12 Sep 23 19:56:43    |
      From: ibshambat@gmail.com              The people who get treated the worst in our society are the sex offenders.       They get treated as not even human. This is wrong even in case they have       committed a crime.              I believe in proportional punishments. Being daily buggered and beaten in jail       is an inappropriate punishment even for rape. And what is also inappropriate       is these people being treated as less than human.              About half the people I know have been victims of rape or incest. The worst       situations were the hardest to prosecute, as the perpetrator was protected       within the family unit. Everyone howls for the blood of a pedophile who rapes       other people’s children;        but incest, which carries worse effects than pedophilia, is hidden by family       and community loyalties and is very difficult to prosecute.              Do we then allow sex crime? By no means. But we need to do away with       demonization of sex offenders. A person guilty of a sex crime is just that: a       person guilty of a crime. He is not subhuman, he is not incurably evil, and he       is not a fiend.              Being ugly to anything or anyone makes us worse people. This is even the case       with people who are genuinely bad. Whether or not the offender is a bad human       being, we are made worse human beings by treating him like he has cooties. And       we need to hold        ourselves to a higher standard of conduct than is practiced by the perpetrator       and be better people doing better things.              At the heart of the matter is not what the offender is as a person. At the       heart of the matter is what kind of people are we. Are we people who run witch       hunts? Are we people who demonize people and treat as less than human? Or are       we better than that?              The attitudes of dealing with sex crime should be reworked. Sex offenders are       not demons, they are people who have done something wrong. By all means hold       perpetrators accountable, but do not treat them as less than human. Honor       their humanity and in so        doing affirm your own.              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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