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|    Ilya Shambat to All    |
|    Ingredients of Courage    |
|    12 Dec 23 19:05:39    |
      From: ibshambat@gmail.com              I do not consider myself an especially brave person, but I’ve known people       who were very brave. And from observing these people I came to have an       understanding of what makes for courage.              The first ingredient of courage is competence. If you know how to run into a       burning building to save people trapped there, then you are more likely to do       it than if you don’t. Competence is necessary for courage, and professions       demanding of courage †      “ the military, the firemen and the police – go to great lengths to train       people in them.              Another ingredient is caring. If you care about someone or something, then you       are more likely to do difficult and dangerous things for them than if you do       not. Similarly people who care about their country are more likely to put       their lives in line for        their country than people who do not.              Another – and something I’ve seen in some people – is the opposite: not       caring. Some people are daredevils who don’t care what happens to them and       do all sorts of death-defying things. The problem with these people is that       the risks that they        take are uncalculated, and often they seriously hurt themselves.              Another is ethics. If you believe that you are doing the right thing, then you       are more likely to act courageously than if you do not. Of course ethics can       be constituted in all sorts of ways, some better than others; and that someone       thinks that he is        ethical does not always mean that he is right.              Is courage a good thing? Yes it is. However it often is associated with things       that aren’t so good at all. The Texans and the Muslims are brave. They are       also rash and hot-headed, and they do stupid things.              One thing I’ve found in the people who were genuinely courageous is that       they did not claim to disown fear. They claimed willingness to act, however       afraid they were. The people who think that fear is at the root of the       problems of the world don’t        know what they are talking about. They haven’t been through experiences that       genuinely test courage. They have no authority on the matter.              Courage is something to teach and reward. However it needs to not be       identified with things that are wrong. Rashness, homophobia, misogyny and       other things that are taught in the same breath as courage discredit courage       by association. It is valid to        strive for courage; it is not valid to strive for these other things. And then       the value itself will be rewarded without being associated with things that       are wrong.              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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