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On Tue, 16 Apr 2024, oldernow wrote:
> On 2024-04-16, D wrote:
>
>>> Okay. Plenty of work to do, there. But - like soaking -
>>> it's a start....
>>
>> True! But let me know when you've recorded it. =)
>
> Ain't gonna happen. The gdbeatles were possible because
> while I "worked" from home, my wife (to be) worked outside
> the home in those days.
Oh, what a shame. Maybe you could get her started playing golf? ;)
> And it's not so much that she might disapprove of
> my putting time/effort into such, as I've difficult
> focusing/working with others around - especially others
> that somehow can't take a look of focus - combined with
> staring intently at a screen - as a hint that they probably
> shouldn't start talking.
>
> My wife has no idea what I might have accomplished in
> the last decade if she could simply resist telling me
> everything that comes to mind - regardless what I'm in
> the process of attempting to do.
>
> *Nobody* has had to go back to the beginning of sentences
> to reread them for having had their focus destroyed by
> another's talk before making it to the end of them -
> and have sufficient time to digest and reflect on them -
> more often than I. I hold the all time world record for
> that. Instances of that occurrence increase faster than
> the US national debt....
Amen! I'm the same way. And perhaps the interplay between you and your
wife works the same way it does for me and my wife? Basically, it only
goes one way. If I work, she asks a question and if I do not respond,
I'm an ass. So reluctantly I sigh, answer, and start over.
Should I however, dare to even breathe when she is into something she
scolds me. But we already covered internal eye-rolling and internal
sighing, and as we both know, that's the success recipe for a good
marriage! ;)
> And yet the pluses of being together *STILL* outweigh
> all that. Marriage is the true "Course In Miracles"!
Amen!
>> Really nice! =) I'm writing this to the tune of agile
>> nation!
>
> Thank you! Nice to see someone enjoy it.
>
>> It's good! I sometimes wonder if I would have been able to
>> produce anything in the realm of music if I didn't get all
>> the joy of music beaten out of me in music school for about
>> 4 years straight. Some people say I'm good at writing, so
>> perhaps some kind of song-writer might have been something.
>
> All you have to do is grow your hair down to your ass,
> and others will automatically assume you know what you're
> doing musically, *and* enjoy everything you create. :-)
Ahhhh... so that is the trick! My wife would be thrilled. She loves me
in long hair, yet I love me in short hair. ;)
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