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   oldernow to nospam@example.net   
   Re: Any boxers here want to weigh in on    
   07 Aug 24 15:32:08   
   
   From: oldernow@dev.null   
      
   On 2024-08-06, D  wrote:   
      
   > One thing you could conclude is that the YOU MUST ACCEPT   
   > behaviour could be due to a bad childhood which left   
   > psychological scars and warped the needs the person has. A   
   > kind of narcissistic illness.   
      
   Seems a reasonable theory/conclusion.   
      
   > Then, the interesting question is... what happened to   
   > bringing up children in the 70s and 80s so that we today   
   > have this annoying trans people? Was there some kind of   
   > paradigm shift in bringing up children?   
      
   How to identify the factors, their relative impact, and   
   then measure them now, then, and before then in order to   
   have sufficient data for conclusion?   
      
   I mean, I can imagine factors like parenting skills   
   degradation, social pressure to no longer parent in   
   ways that "worked" in the past, increased exposure to   
   notions/entertainment in popular culture that favor   
   thinking/feeling in "trans ways" (whatever those might   
   be). But I suppose there could be environmental factors,   
   nutritional factors, "news media lying incessantly"   
   factors, etc.   
      
   All I know personally is I wasn't at all ready for   
   parenting, and had also moved too far from home for   
   my parents to have possibly been there with regular   
   advice/critique/reminders.   
      
   > When I think about my own politically incorrect upbringing,   
   > it was at times fairly strict, with clear rules, yet,   
   > at the same time filled with love and rewards for good   
   > behaviour and punishment for bad behaviour.   
      
   Same. I'm massively grateful for it.   
      
   > Modesty forbids me from saying that I think it was an   
   > excellent upbringing that yielded excellent results. ;)   
      
   It certainly yielded fine language usage and typing   
   skills. But I'd have to hear from your wife on the   
   rest.... :-)   
      
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