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   On Wed, 7 Aug 2024, oldernow wrote:   
      
   > On 2024-08-07, D wrote:   
   >   
   >>>> One thing you could conclude is that the YOU MUST ACCEPT   
   >>>> behaviour could be due to a bad childhood which left   
   >>>> psychological scars and warped the needs the person has. A   
   >>>> kind of narcissistic illness.   
   >>>   
   >>> Seems a reasonable theory/conclusion.   
   >>>   
   >>>> Then, the interesting question is... what happened to   
   >>>> bringing up children in the 70s and 80s so that we today   
   >>>> have this annoying trans people? Was there some kind of   
   >>>> paradigm shift in bringing up children?   
   >>>   
   >>> How to identify the factors, their relative impact, and   
   >>> then measure them now, then, and before then in order to   
   >>> have sufficient data for conclusion?   
   >>   
   >> Very difficult! But if we solve this problem here in   
   >> alt.philosophy I bet we could get a Nobel peace prize or   
   >> two! ;)   
   >   
   > It's already been solved by Jesus and others, but don't   
   > expect self-centric egos to rush embrace practicing leading   
   > until selflessness.   
      
   Ahh... that reminded me of my dream of a book projects, where I   
   deconstruct the lessons of Jesus when it comes to transcendence and   
   living a good life, into their essence, remove the religious stuff, and   
   sell it to the masses! The hope is that it then will be accepted, when   
   cloaked in a "scientific" (TM) shroud!   
      
   >> Jokes aside, it is not that far away, so at least it is still possible to   
   >> round up parents from the different generations and compare their   
   >> memories, thoughts and ideas.   
   >>   
   >> Another thing I'm thinking is if the answer is trivial and   
   >> known by psychologists since decades back, but, that we   
   >> have no interest, time or resources to actually implement   
   >> those policies.   
   >   
   > decades -> millennia (per the above)   
      
   Yes, maybe I was a bit modest with my guess. ;) After all, they did have   
   children millennia ago too, and here we are!   
      
   >> Or... what _if_ stay at home mothers, with their   
   >> biologically superior empathy and caring is the key   
   >> to raise children with a emotionally secure base... how   
   >> would that go down with todays militant feminists and woke   
   >> warriors? ;)   
   >   
   > Too bad that's rocket science for self-centric beings.   
      
   Yes, it does seem like common sense is in decline.   
      
   >> I read about a movement called the "Trad wife" movement   
   >> where the arguments by some women is that they feel happier   
   >> and more female assuming the role of a traditional stay   
   >> at home mother, caring for the family, and therefore they   
   >> reject the prevailing norm of todays society that women   
   >> must be like small men. This is enormously provocative for   
   >> social justive warriors. I always smile when I encounter   
   >> those conflicts! =)   
   >   
   > Again, simple stuff for those who get their self out of   
   > the way.   
   >   
   >> I think that is also an interesting idea. Not everyone   
   >> should be a parent, and some people should be actively   
   >> forbidden from procreating for the sake of themselves _and_   
   >> their potential children. This is also taboo to bring up in   
   >> todays society where everyone is entitled to everything. ;)   
   >   
   > There's no limit to the stupidity unearth-able by selfish   
   > selves.   
   >   
   >>>> Modesty forbids me from saying that I think it was an   
   >>>> excellent upbringing that yielded excellent results. ;)   
   >>>   
   >>> It certainly yielded fine language usage and typing   
   >>> skills. But I'd have to hear from your wife on the   
   >>> rest.... :-)   
   >>   
   >> You're very kind! However, my wife calls everyone I   
   >> interact with online the "freak show" so I doubt she would   
   >> be willing to make an appearance here. ;)   
   >   
   > She's definitely got it right in my case! ;-)   
      
   Hah! A confession! She will loooove this! ;)   
      
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