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      XPost: alt.fan.rush-limbaugh, alt.politics.trump       From: katt@gmail.com              On Wed, 7 Jan 2026 12:43:54 -0600, super70s says...              > CNN - In Minneapolis, federal agents were involved in a shooting today.       > A person who was shot by an ICE officer has died, Homeland Security       > officials say.              > The shooting happened as Minnesota faces an immigration crackdown amid       > a nationwide enforcement push by the Trump administration. Around 2,000       > federal agents were being deployed to Minneapolis, two law enforcement       > sources told CNN.              Why did you leave it out the part that the woman hit the federal officer with       a 5,000lb. weapon?              The driver in Minneapolis swiped the ICE agent with her car.              The video clearly shows it.              This is the video the Democrats don't want you to see!              Would be a shame if it went viral.              Oops!              https://video.twimg.com/ext_tw_video/2008975423686725633/pu/vid/avc1/720x1280/       nYChs-sU-bgfrKJc.mp4              =====              stupor70's toddler behaviour:              A) Someone's psychological or emotional age is often evident in emotional       reactions and habits.              B) Signs of emotional toddler behaviour include emotional escalations,       blaming,       lies, and name-calling.              C) Someone who is an emotionally Toddler may also have poor impulse control,       need to be the center of attention, or ENGAGE IN BULLYING.              1. Emotional escalations              2. Blaming              3. Lies              4. Name-calling              5. Impulsivity-or as therapists say, "poor impulse control"              6. Need to be the center of attention              7. Bullying              8. Budding narcissism              9. Immature defenses              10. No observing ego-that is, no ability to see, acknowledge, and learn from        their mistakes              How can you assess if an adult functions emotionally more like a toddler? As a       therapist who works extensively with couples, I have learned that almost any       client can look reasonably "adult" when I meet with him or her individually.              By contrast, seeing the same client in a couples therapy session where spouses       are interacting gives me vastly more data. Mistaken, immature, and       pathological behaviors all become much more visible. I also see the extent to       which each partner's actions are rude, hurtful, or even dangerously       Toddlerish-or calm, respectful, and maturely adult.                     What Is Emotional Age?              A psychologist from Africa with whom I once spoke at an international       psychology conference explained to me that in his country, it was common to       assess people in terms of both physical age and emotional age.              Physical age can be counted by number of birthdays. Physical age, especially       with toddlers, also tends to correlate with height, strength, and cognitive       functioning. Psychological or emotional age, by contrast, becomes evident in       emotional reactions and habits. For instance, adults can stay calm whereas       toddler tend to be quicker to anger. Adults exercise careful judgment before       talking whereas toddler may impulsively blurt out tactless, hurtful words.              If toddlers want a car or doll that another toddler is playing with, they are       likely to reach out and take the item. Most preschoolers get mad or cry       multiple times every day, even if they are basically well-nurtured and happy       kids. The rules of adult play, like taking turns or not grabbing, have not yet       begun to shape their behavior. Youngsters do not act in a consistently civil       manner because they have not yet internalized the rules of "civilized" adults.              Behaviors that are normal for toddler however, look Toddlerish and rude when       adults do them.                     CAN YOU RECOGNIZE TODDLERISH ADULT BEHAVIOR?              One way to think about how young toddler differ from emotionally mature adults       is to picture kids you know-maybe even your own toddler, grandtoddler, nieces,       nephews, and neighbors. How do these toddler differ from adults that you know       and respect?              Before reading my list of characteristics that I look for, you might want to       jot down a list of the traits that you noticed in your visualization. Please       share with other readers in the comments below this article if you spotted       some traits that I missed.                     10 SIGNS OF EMOTIONAL TODDLER BEHAVIOUR              How many of the following signs of emotional immaturity does your list       include?              Emotional escalations: Young toddlers often cry, get mad, or outwardly appear       petulant and pouting. Grownups seldom do.              Blaming: When things go wrong, young toddler look to blame someone. Grownups       look to fix the problem.              Lies: When there's a situation that's uncomfortable, young toddler might lie       to stay out of trouble. Grownups deal with reality, reliably speaking the       truth.              Name-calling: toddler call each other names. Adults seek to understand issues.       Adults do not make ad hominen attacks, that is, attacks on people's personal       traits. Instead, they attack the problem. They do not disrespect others with       mean labels.              There is one exception. Sometimes adults, just like firefighters who battle       forest fires, have to fight fire with fire. They may need to use "fire" to       manage an angry toddler or an out-of-bounds adult, in order to get them to       cease their bad behavior.              Impulsivity-or as therapists say, "poor impulse control": toddler strike out       impulsively when they feel hurt or mad. They speak recklessly or take       impulsive action without pausing to think about the potential consequences.       Similarly, instead of listening to others' viewpoints, they impulsively       interrupt them.              Adults pause, resisting the impulse to shoot out hurtful words or actions.       They calm themselves. They then think through the problem, seeking more       information and analyzing options.              Again, some instances of acting on impulse can be hallmarks of mature       behavior. Soldiers and police, for instance, are trained to discriminate       rapidly between harmless and dangerous situations so that they can respond       quickly enough to protect potential victims of criminal actions.              Need to be the center of attention: Ever tried to have adult dinner       conversations with a two-year-old at the table? Did attempts to launch a       discussion with others at the table result in the toddler getting fussy?              Bullying: A toddler who is physically larger than other toddler his age can       walk up to another child who is playing with a toy he would like and simply       take it. The other child may say nothing lest the bully turns on them with       hostility. In many cases, it's safer just to let a bully have what he wants.       Adults, on the other hand, respect boundaries: Yours is yours and mine is       mine.              Budding narcissism: In an earlier post, I coined the term tall man syndrome              [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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