From: jtem01@gmail.com   
      
   On 1/27/26 4:58 PM, Mike wrote:   
      
   > By responding I've only   
   > been trying to be courteous. From now on then, I just won't   
   > bother to click on them.   
      
   Click on what?  Music videos?   
      
   Honestly. It's not that unusual for either of us to post music   
   videos. This one time you decided that it was all about you and   
   it was all sexual. YOU! YOU react with YOUR thoughts and YOUR   
   feelings and then YOU keep attributing these thoughts & feelings   
   of YOURS to me.   
      
   How many more times do I have to point this out? How many more   
   times do I have to spell this out explicitly before you stop   
   attributing YOUR thoughts & feelings to me?   
      
   I posted a music video. I spelled out why I liked it.   
      
      
   Put short:  It's a good song, sung my a talented singer   
   with a good voice, capturing our times like few if any   
   other artist even try, and he's accomplishing all this   
   on a shoestring!   
      
      
   THAT'S what I did. You saw all of this and thought "Sex object."   
      
   You did.   
      
   AND, you attributed your thoughts, your feelings to me. AND, you   
   did this in an extremely offensive manner.   
      
   You picked a fight with me.   
      
   So, me being me, I hit you back with another young artist and   
   specifically mentioned how handsome he was and how his being   
   handsome was a factor in his appeal... YOUNG and handsome! The   
   fact that he was so YOUNG and handsome contributed to his appeal.   
   He was more appealing because he was so YOUNG and handsome, rather   
   than an old guy singing old songs.   
      
   Yeah. It was intentional. I was intentionally tweaking your nose,   
   because YOU were overly offensive with the added sin of attributing   
   YOUR thoughts & feelings to me, then using YOUR thoughts & feelings   
   to justify being so insulting, so offensive towards me.   
      
   AND THEN I tweaked your nose AGAIN with the Alaskan snow plow dude.   
      
   Never said anything sexual about ANY OF THESE, except on the third   
   one I took it a little further. I asked if he was gay, and I even   
   raised the possibility -- without saying I agreed with it -- that   
   he could be trans.   
      
   For the record:  Don't think he's trans. He has big hands. One of   
   the most common give-aways even on the best transitions out there,   
   as far ftm trans goes, is small hands & feet. Another is the lack   
   of an adam's apple. A third but less common is zero bulge.   
      
   This is assuming that the voice isn't distinctly female...   
      
   >>> YOU were the problem and YOU were the solution!   
   >   
   > That makes sense, from now on, I just won't click on them.   
      
   Because of YOU. You won't click on them BECAUSE OF YOU. Because   
   of YOUR thoughts and YOUR feelings.   
      
   The problem exists whether you click on them or not. The click   
   merely exposes your problem.   
      
   >>> ALSO:  Some certified "Young" though legally consenting adults   
   >>> are into older people!  Some are just looking for a sugar daddy,   
   >>> which is okay if they're open about that, and some honestly   
   >>> are into "Daddy Types."   
   >   
   > Yes 'if they're open about that' is the key point you make.   
   > I'm not 'open about that'   
      
   You're also not one of these certified "Young" though legally   
   consenting people. You flipped this around, made it about you, when   
   it clearly was not.   
      
   >>> Anyway, you're older, you know damn well how attractive a young   
   >>> person, in their physical prime, can be, even if you won't admit   
   >>> it.   
   >   
   > I don't see the guys that you post as that.   
      
   The first one you clearly did. All that "Sex" you saw was in your   
   head. It was NOT in anything I meant let alone said.   
      
   Again, I was evaluating a music video exactly as I do all music   
   videos and shared it because it as a music video, and the performer   
   as an artist, impressed me. Everything else -- all thoughts &   
   motives -- came only from you.   
      
   You attributed it all to me but it was never me, it all came from   
   you.   
      
   > They are young   
   > effeminate freaks, that I would be ashamed to associate with.   
      
   The first guy was the opposite of effeminate. The second guy wasn't   
   the least bit effeminate, he had a very "Mature" handsomeness to   
   him. The third guy I was getting a *Ping* off of, and I posted him   
   100% in revenge for your picking a fight with me.   
      
   Yeah I was deliberately triggering you, after you picked a fight.   
      
   Heck, I even asked for the Steven, as you can see in the subject   
   line, to prove it was you making it about "The Entity we Channel   
   called Mike."   
      
   > I just won't bother to click on your Facebook links from now on.   
      
       ...because YOU made it all about YOU.   
      
   This is what you can't accept, can't face:  It's all on you. YOU   
   have this baggage in you and YOU are attributing all your thoughts,   
   all your feelings & motives to me.   
      
   Me? I'm so NOT you that even in the case of the young dudes you   
   really are porn stars, it never occurred to me! I missed it completely.   
   It genuinely never occurred to me that Facebook, through it's reels,   
   was feeding me promotional videos from gay pron stars.   
      
   YOU invented out of whole cloth this idea of my posting a musical   
   video as softcore porn, EVEN CALLED ME A PERVERT!   
      
   YOU PICKED A FIGHT WITH ME using YOUR sexual thoughts as justifications.   
      
   "I'm having dirty thoughts, this makes you a pervert."   
      
   No. It would make YOU a pervert!   
      
   Get over it. It's NORMAL to be attracted to young people -- make or   
   female, whatever you're into. It's normal. "Old People Porn" has   
   always existed and it was always fetish porn BECAUSE we are   
   programmed to be sexually attracted to young adults.   
      
   Heterosexuals because that's what you need to make babies -- old   
   people can't do that -- and gay people because it's just a normal   
   sexual response that somehow got flipped. That's it. Gay dudes are   
   reacting to dudes as straight dudes react to gals.   
      
   No magic.   
      
   Now STOP picking fights.   
      
      
      
      
      
      
      
      
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