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   From: epsteinrob@yahoo.com   
      
   Awaken21 wrote:   
      
   > On Aug 16, 12:31 am, halfawake  wrote:   
   >   
   >>Evelyn wrote:   
   >>   
   >>   
   >>>"halfawake"  wrote in message   
   >>>news:i4803v$qef$2@news.eternal-september.org...   
   >>   
   >>>>Evelyn wrote:   
   >>   
   >>>>>"Julian"  wrote in message   
   >>>>>news:i46dte$r8c$1@news.eternal-september.org...   
   >>   
   >>>>>>On 14/08/2010 16:20, Jigme Dorje wrote:   
   >>   
   >>>>>>>On Aug 14, 10:40 am, Lee Rudolph  wrote:   
   >>   
   >>>>>>>>oxtail  writes:   
   >>   
   >>>>>>>>>Tang Huyen wrote:   
   >>   
   >>>>>>>>>>In a certain religion, it is asked: what good is it to win the   
   >>>>>>>>>>world and   
   >>>>>>>>>>lose your soul? In the case of the above people, it is possible   
   >>>>>>>>>>that all   
   >>>>>>>>>>their soul is wrapped up with the Church, even in ostentatious   
   >>>>>>>>>>rebellion. Can they get away from it and live in independence   
   >>>>>>>>>>from it?   
   >>   
   >>>>>>>>>>Tang Huyen   
   >>   
   >>>>>>>>>Not even close.   
   >>>>>>>>>I bet they are much more attached   
   >>>>>>>>>to Money than to the Church.   
   >>>>>>>>>How about you?   
   >>   
   >>>>>>>>I gave away my Church to the churchless!!!   
   >>   
   >>>>>>>>Lee Rudolph   
   >>   
   >>>>>>>Churches are good for something.   
   >>>>>>>Someday we may figure out what.   
   >>   
   >>>>>>They are great for picking up women.   
   >>   
   >>>>>It's keeping them that's the trick.   
   >>   
   >>>>Not for many men.   
   >>   
   >>>>Robert   
   >>   
   >>>>= = = = = =   
   >>   
   >>>It depends.   If he has what they want or not.....   
   >>>And some just don't have the courage to leave.   
   >>   
   >>I didn't say that correctly.  I meant to say that for many men keeping   
   >>women is not their main concern, but getting rid of them   
   >   
   >   
   > Many women are freaking insane in some way, like men actually. finding   
   > one that's worth passing time with is like stumbling on a diamond. in   
   > the meantime letting them go is a great technique I highly reccomend   
   > to any sane male who eventually wants a peaceful life as a husband and   
   > householder.   
      
   yes, I found out for myself on several occasions that unskillful letting   
   go of relationships can be very very difficult.   
      
   I'm lucky I eventually found someone I could live with and who, more   
   importantly, was able to tolerate me for more than a couple of years,   
   months or days.   
      
   It's now been 20 years since our first date.   
      
   Robert   
      
   = = = = = = =   
      
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