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      XPost: ba.politics, alt.politics.democrats, sac.politics       XPost: alt.fan.rush-limbaugh, talk.politics.guns       From: yourdime@outlook.com              Julia Baran was just finishing her late-night waitressing shift at the       House of Prime Rib when she heard the news.              San Francisco Supervisor Beya Alcaraz, appointed by Mayor Daniel Lurie,       was resigning after just seven days on the job. Baran was floored.              “Wow,” she texted a reporter. “I did that.”              The 26-year-old was behind a series of revelations, aired in the media and       to the mayor’s office, about Alcaraz, a 29-year-old former pet shop owner       with no political experience appointed by Lurie to represent the Sunset       District. The information Baran brought to light probably catalyzed       Alcaraz’s resignation, which political experts have called a major       embarrassment for Lurie’s administration.              By sharing text messages, emails, photographs and videos with the public,       Baran revealed how Alcaraz had sold her a pet store beset by a severe       mouse infestation, often failed to pay rent on time and operated at a loss       for years. Perhaps most damningly, Baran shared texts in which Alcaraz       bragged about skimping on taxes by paying employees under the table and       writing off personal expenses like “dinner and drinks” with friends as       business expenses — behavior that’s illegal.              Alcaraz defended how she ran the business Thursday evening, saying in a       statement to the Chronicle about the newly unearthed text messages, “I       don’t owe a dollar in taxes.” But within hours, she had resigned at       Lurie’s request.              “This is probably the first self-inflicted failure for the       administration,” said David Ho, a progressive political consultant.              Lurie said Thursday morning, “This is not the first time that I have       gotten something wrong. It won’t be the last. But what I commit to all of       you, and the people of San Francisco, is that I’m going to learn from       this.”              Some have questioned Baran’s motives. Even her father had advised her not       to go public with what she knew, Baran said. She was scared, she said. But       the petite, soft-spoken San Francisco native, who’s battled her own       personal demons and a major family tragedy in the past year, said she       ultimately decided to do so because “I would want to know the truth.”              “Whatever blowback I get from this, the community should know,” she said.       “I don’t think I’ve benefited from this much. But I think if I didn’t       speak out, it would eat away at me.”              Alcaraz had sold Baran the Irving Street pet store in May for an agreed-       upon $10,000, but the deal soured as Baran discovered dead animals Alcaraz       left in the freezer, foot-high mice nests and piles of dead mice, which       Baran spent weeks cleaning out. She still hasn’t paid Alcaraz but said she       plans to do so.              The mayor’s office didn’t contact Baran before picking Alcaraz as District       4 supervisor.              Baran said she “felt sick” when she learned of Alcaraz’s appointment on       Nov. 6 and called the mayor’s office the next day to share what she knew,       texting photos and videos of the infestation to the mayor’s public affairs       director, Han Zou.              “Is there anything that you would like our office or the Mayor to do?” Zou       texted back.              “It should be up to the Mayor and your team to figure out how to remedy       the situation of appointing someone like this without doing any proper due       diligence,” she responded.              Disappointed by the response, she told everything she knew to a San       Francisco Standard reporter, then a Chronicle reporter. The mayor’s office       declined to comment on the text exchange, stating it shared Baran’s       evidence with “the appropriate people.”              Baran was raised in the Richmond District by a Polish immigrant father and       Chinese American mother. She grew up working at her dad’s auto shop, which       inspired her to run her own small business.              “I understand that once you pick up a small business, this is your life,”       she said.              Her mom was a “badass lady” who worked in finance and real estate, she       said, but struggled with schizophrenia. When her parents’ marriage started       disintegrating in her teens, she felt she had to fend for herself and her       younger brother, both financially and emotionally, not wanting to add to       her parents’ stresses.              “That’s when I developed empathy,” she said. She started working at an       ophthalmologist’s office as a 15-year-old sophomore at Lowell High School.              Later, as a City College student, she started working as an operations       assistant at an executive search firm. Over four years, sitting in on       hours of interviews with potential nonprofit executives, she said she       learned what it took to be a good leader.              She also saw how many talented people weren’t hired for top jobs, she       said. That insight added to her bewilderment when she saw Alcaraz was       appointed without anyone from the mayor’s office contacting her.              “It’s such basic hiring practices,” she said.              This wasn’t the first time Baran had to grapple with the consequences of       going public with potentially damaging accusations. She accused a man she       knew from high school of sexually assaulting her after keeping quiet about       it for a year. She’d get panic attacks when he showed up at social events.              Finally, she decided to go public with it, posting a video on social media       that named him and making a police report, though he was never charged.       The backlash was swift. She said the man’s friends said she was being       vindictive. She started carrying a knife everywhere. The pandemic was in       full swing, and feeling overwhelmed, she dropped out of UC Berkeley, where       she’d transferred.              But speaking publicly about the alleged assault led to dozens of sexual       assault survivors reaching out to thank her for speaking up.              “It felt so free to just let people know,” she said. “I think that applies       here too. I could have just turned a blind eye, but who knows how much       damage she could have done.”              After dropping out from college, Baran continued working, including at an       aquarium store and as an executive assistant. Then, last summer, she was       staying at her mom’s house in Pacifica with her brother when her mom had a       psychotic episode.              It was her brother’s birthday. They got cake. But when her mom got home at       9 p.m. from work as an Uber driver, she showed Baran a handgun she just       bought. Baran was angry and argued with her mom before they went to bed.       The next morning, Baran headed to the pharmacy to pick up a prescription       and left her brother sleeping in bed.              While she was gone, her mother entered the room and shot her brother twice       in the arm then walked out. Her brother locked himself in the bedroom and       called 911. Police arrived and found Baran’s mom in the driveway in her       sport utility vehicle. One officer got close enough to see that her mom              [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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