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   Message 499,014 of 500,053   
   Lost to Megan   
   Re: property value dropping after suicid   
   10 Jan 15 15:15:30   
   
   From: anna.gonzales.wpg@gmail.com   
      
   On Saturday, January 10, 2015 at 4:10:02 PM UTC-6, Megan wrote:   
   > On Saturday, January 10, 2015 at 3:08:44 PM UTC-5, nickfur...@gmail.com   
   wrote:   
   > > Me either Lost, I don't want to die somewhere my family goes regularly so   
   home is definitely out. I'm going to be in a beautiful natural setting when I   
   ctb so at least I'll have that.   
   >    
   > lmao, no offense but I think we're kind of kidding ourselves by acting like   
   dying away from home will make it any easier on our parents/families. I went   
   through that train of thought too, but honestly It's gonna be just as   
   traumatic if not more so for    
   them to have to go in and identify your body at the morgue once you're   
   eventually found (and worst of all would be if they never found you, your   
   family would never have closure and it would eat at them forever.) Not to   
   mention idk how your families are    
   specifically, but if they're private or sensitive people, knowing your   
   body/death was in public might unsettle them extremely. NOT saying not to do   
   it outside if that's where you would feel most peaceful catching the bus, just   
   saying not to think it's a    
   helluva lot better. We need to be conscious of the facts that our suicides are   
   going to be devastating to those we leave behind no matter where and how we do   
   it. In my opinion, at least, it's important to come to terms with that before   
   leaving.   
      
   No offense taken, Megan.    
   You made a lot of good points and it is the primary reason why I'm here. Heck   
   during my first therapy session when she asked why I was here I said, "for the   
   sake of my friends, I don't give a crap about myself".  How did you come to   
   terms with your    
   departure Megan?   
      
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    * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)   

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