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|    The Wise One to All    |
|    "'Sucking up' is bad for business"    |
|    23 Apr 09 20:22:25    |
      From: the.wise.one@abel.co.uk              Workers 'sucking up' is bad for business: experts              (Agencies)       Updated: 2009-04-15 08:59                     NEW YORK – If there's a bit more false flattery and loud enthusiasm at       the office than usual, don't be surprised.              Whether it's called buttering up the boss, brown-nosing, sucking up or       managing up, experts say ingratiating behavior is bound to be on the       rise in the workplace as workers fret about keeping their jobs in tough       economic times.              But such behavior can be bad for business, they said.              "People who tend to 'manage up' anyway are managing up more. They really       want to make sure people are noticing what they're doing," said Max       Caldwell, an expert in workforce effectiveness at Towers Perrin       management consultants.              "It's a mentality of 'I not only want to do a good job, but I want to be       seen as doing a good job,'" he said.              That behavior increases when stakes are high, said Jennifer Chatman,       professor of organizational behavior at the University of California at       Berkeley.              "It's what we do when we feel ourselves vulnerable or susceptible to the       decisions of others," she said. "I would have every expectation that if       we went out and tried to collect data right now, that it was going on in       a big way because people are feeling more vulnerable."              In such an environment, underlings may be more likely to lavish praise       on bad decisions or poor judgment by a boss and avoid being candid or       bearing bad news, she said.              "It can be bad for business, keeping the yea-sayers around," Chatman said.              But according to some researchers, sucking up works.              Challenging a chief executive less, complimenting the CEO more and doing       the CEO a personal favor increased the likelihood of being appointed to       a corporate board by 64 percent, a University of Texas study found.                     COME IN FIVE MINUTES EARLIER              In a separate study that Chatman conducted, job-seekers using       ingratiating behavior were 20 percent more likely to land a job.              It's human nature, she said. "People who bring positive information,       that stroke the boss, that make the boss feel good about the decisions       he or she has made, that build up the boss' confidence, those people are       going to do better," she said.              It's nothing to be ashamed of, said Frances Cole Jones, a professional       coach and author of "How to Wow." In tough times, she said, go to work       early, stay late, attend meetings and volunteer for extra work.              "In times like these, the smart thing to do is to 'suck up' -- or,       perhaps, 're-commit,'" she said. "These days employees need to be       flexible, ambidextrous, creative and committed."              Stephen Viscusi, author of "Bulletproof Your Job," suggested a simple       change in work habits. "If you come in five minutes earlier than the       boss and stay five minutes later, the boss doesn't know how long you're       there. He just knows that you're always working," he said.              Francie Dalton, who runs Dalton Alliances Inc. management consultants,       said criticizing a colleague as a way to suck-up may signal envy.              "If you think somebody is sucking up, consider whether you might be       jealous. Consider whether you're getting nervous because that person is       outpacing, outshining and outdoing you," she said.              Others like author Bill Hanover rule out ingratiating behavior altogether.              "If you value self-respect, the respect of your peers and leaders, then       sucking-up or faking your way to a promotion will leave you ashamed and       wanting," writes Hanover, the author of "No Sucking Up."              "Don't do it. And like the old drunk driving ad campaign states,       'Friends don't let friends suck-up,'" he wrote.                     http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/world/2009-04/15/content_7678674.htm              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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