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   Lolololol! to All   
   The Ashley Madison hack ruined my life (   
   28 Aug 15 19:18:01   
   
   XPost: alt.fat-smelly-hippie, alt.rectum.nearly.killed-um, alt.connecticut   
   XPost: alt.lefthanders   
   From: lololol@divorces.com   
      
   Several people who were directly affected by the data breach of   
   the cheating website AshleyMadison.com have reached out to   
   CNNMoney. Their identities and details have been independently   
   verified, but they have spoken on condition of anonymity.   
      
   The mistress   
      
   "Ana" is a highly educated business woman in her 40s who is   
   finalizing a divorce with her husband.   
      
   She stayed up late Thursday rapidly texting eight married men   
   with whom she had relationships after finding them on Ashley   
   Madison.   
      
   She said the men are all worried their wives will use search   
   tools now available online to find the email addresses they used   
   to sign up for the cheating site.   
      
   Meanwhile, Ana is concerned about her job in finance. Her   
   clients are couples and small businesses. These are highly   
   personal relationships. If they plug in her email address into   
   any of the available Ashley Madison searches, she'll be exposed.   
   And maybe even fired.   
      
   "I would lose business, contracts... I'm not even sure if my   
   contract with my employer has a morality clause," she told   
   CNNMoney on Friday. "It could be very damaging."   
      
   Ana claims to have had more than 50 encounters -- everything   
   ranging from "a benign flirtatious lunch" to "three days in a   
   hotel room and ordering room service." To her, Ashley Madison   
   was a playground.   
      
   "Honey, I devoured them," she said.   
      
   The wife of cheater   
      
   "Kimberly" is a neurophysiologist in Richmond, Virginia, who   
   travels a lot on business. She was stuck on a grounded flight   
   Thursday night when she came across a news story about the   
   Ashley Madison hack on her smartphone.   
      
   She and her husband had been having marital issues lately, and   
   she figured she'd plug his personal email address into a search   
   tool.   
      
   It was a match, and she immediately called him. Here's how she   
   remembers the conversation:   
      
   "What do you know about this website, Ashley Madison?" she asked.   
      
   "I read a little about how they had a hack," he responded.   
      
   "Well, I searched your email, and it came up."   
      
   That's when he admitted he was a user on the site, though he   
   kept changing his story.   
      
   "I don't know the whole story yet," Kimberly told CNNMoney. "I'm   
   done. Even if it's just him getting on there looking. I don't   
   trust him."   
      
   Kimberly is now at her parents' place while her husband packs up   
   his things and finds an apartment.   
      
   The soon-to-be divorcee   
      
   This week wasn't the first time "Stacy" caught her husband   
   cheating. Back in January, she found his iPad unlocked, opened   
   his photo collection and found pictures of him naked in bed with   
   another woman.   
      
   She threw him out of their home and filed divorce papers that   
   afternoon.   
      
   They're just now finalizing the divorce settlement. When Stacy   
   heard she could find exposed Ashley Madison users online, she   
   typed in his email address. Surely enough, he was a member.   
      
   Stacy hasn't seen his profile. She has no idea whether he   
   actually slept with anyone he found on the dating site. But she   
   thinks the massive hack of stolen documents contains information   
   that will help her divorce.   
      
   "It proves his adulterous behavior. It would give me more   
   ability to negotiate what I'm requesting in the settlement," she   
   said.   
      
   But that doesn't mean she's happy about what she found out. And   
   her husband's presence on Ashley Madison was still an eyeopener.   
      
   "If this would have happened in December, I might have not even   
   searched," she said. "I would have just been in denial. To women   
   who have no suspicions, I say: check anyway. It's sad."   
      
   Comments:   
      
   Perry Penior   
   Perry Penior1 hour ago   
   What a disgusting woman   
      
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   Sam Sabet   
   Sam Sabet3 hours ago   
   Back in the 80's we had a saying this fits this artice...Call 1   
   800 WAAAA   
      
   Why did you all get married if you are going to mess around..and   
   don't give me.."we are having problems..getting a divorce" blaa   
   blaa....you got hit by the meanest lady in existance...Lady   
   Karma!   
      
      
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   ajgag   
   ajgag3 hours ago   
   Ashley Madison ruined your life!  No, you ruined your life!   
      
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   Moogst   
   Moogst4 hours ago   
   Didn't know enough to put the well uphill from the outhouse.   
   Prepaid credit card, Bitcoin, Hushmail, Tor network and   
   encrypted email.   
      
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   Tony Whisman   
   Tony Whisman4 hours ago   
   hahahahaaahaha.   
      
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   Oscar Guzman   
   Oscar Guzman5 hours ago   
   I don't understand why people are blaming the hack when they   
   know they are the one who made these choices, you cheat you   
   should be able to take the consequences. Also to able to tell   
   your partner your messing around with another person. Those   
   people who find their husband/wife on that website should thank   
   the hackers for they can stop wasting time on people who cant be   
   faithful.   
      
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   ca2011   
   ca20117 hours ago   
   Another evidence marriage is completely unnecessary and   
   government should get out of it.  Just wait until the gays catch   
   up with stories like this one.   
      
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   jsb2   
   jsb27 hours ago   
   I heard Bruce was on Ashley Madison;   
      
   He found a girl named Caitlyn;   
   Now they are one.   
      
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   Charles Knowlton   
   Charles Knowlton8 hours ago   
   Oh, poor, POOR Ana. Ana the homewrecker. Don't feel sorry for   
   her or all the married men she slept around with. She made her,   
   uh, bed and now she and everyone else has to live with the   
   consequences. No sympathy here at all.   
      
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   Bobbie Smith   
   Bobbie Smith9 hours ago   
   The Ahley Madison hack didn't ruin your life.  YOU ruined your   
   life the day you signed up!   
      
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   scottmisc12   
   scottmisc1212 hours ago   
   The Ashley Madison hack ruined my life - REALLY? When are we   
   going to take responsibility for our own actions? Your life is   
   ruined because you decided to cheat; not because of the hack.   
   Blaming others for our actions and political correctness will   
   ruin our great nation. On the same note, I did not see a single   
   tweet on "Police Life Matters" and promise that family will take   
   responsibilities and stop their kids getting to criminal   
   activities. I tweeted "All Life Matters" and I was surprised to   
   see how many people started responding with nasty reply - I   
   decided to close my twitter account. What is wrong is "All Life   
   Matters"?   
      
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   Alvin Lee   
   Alvin Lee11 hours ago   
   @scottmisc12 I agree that people should be kept accountable for   
   their own actions.   Good points you raise.   
      
      
      
   As for your question about what's wrong with "All Life Matters",   
   I think you have to understand that not all lives are treated   
   equally which is why "All Life Matters" is not the same as   
   "Black Lives Matter."  Black lives matter movement highlights   
   the unequal treatment of blacks by the justice system as viewing   
   them as "dangerous" or "worthless".  For example, Michael Brown   
   robs a convenience store for some cigs and he gets killed while   
   Dylan Roof was given a BurgerKing lunch after he was arrested   
   for killing 8 people in a Black church.  These situations   
      
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