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|    The Ashley Madison hack ruined my life (    |
|    28 Aug 15 19:18:01    |
      XPost: alt.fat-smelly-hippie, alt.rectum.nearly.killed-um, alt.connecticut       XPost: alt.lefthanders       From: lololol@divorces.com              Several people who were directly affected by the data breach of       the cheating website AshleyMadison.com have reached out to       CNNMoney. Their identities and details have been independently       verified, but they have spoken on condition of anonymity.              The mistress              "Ana" is a highly educated business woman in her 40s who is       finalizing a divorce with her husband.              She stayed up late Thursday rapidly texting eight married men       with whom she had relationships after finding them on Ashley       Madison.              She said the men are all worried their wives will use search       tools now available online to find the email addresses they used       to sign up for the cheating site.              Meanwhile, Ana is concerned about her job in finance. Her       clients are couples and small businesses. These are highly       personal relationships. If they plug in her email address into       any of the available Ashley Madison searches, she'll be exposed.       And maybe even fired.              "I would lose business, contracts... I'm not even sure if my       contract with my employer has a morality clause," she told       CNNMoney on Friday. "It could be very damaging."              Ana claims to have had more than 50 encounters -- everything       ranging from "a benign flirtatious lunch" to "three days in a       hotel room and ordering room service." To her, Ashley Madison       was a playground.              "Honey, I devoured them," she said.              The wife of cheater              "Kimberly" is a neurophysiologist in Richmond, Virginia, who       travels a lot on business. She was stuck on a grounded flight       Thursday night when she came across a news story about the       Ashley Madison hack on her smartphone.              She and her husband had been having marital issues lately, and       she figured she'd plug his personal email address into a search       tool.              It was a match, and she immediately called him. Here's how she       remembers the conversation:              "What do you know about this website, Ashley Madison?" she asked.              "I read a little about how they had a hack," he responded.              "Well, I searched your email, and it came up."              That's when he admitted he was a user on the site, though he       kept changing his story.              "I don't know the whole story yet," Kimberly told CNNMoney. "I'm       done. Even if it's just him getting on there looking. I don't       trust him."              Kimberly is now at her parents' place while her husband packs up       his things and finds an apartment.              The soon-to-be divorcee              This week wasn't the first time "Stacy" caught her husband       cheating. Back in January, she found his iPad unlocked, opened       his photo collection and found pictures of him naked in bed with       another woman.              She threw him out of their home and filed divorce papers that       afternoon.              They're just now finalizing the divorce settlement. When Stacy       heard she could find exposed Ashley Madison users online, she       typed in his email address. Surely enough, he was a member.              Stacy hasn't seen his profile. She has no idea whether he       actually slept with anyone he found on the dating site. But she       thinks the massive hack of stolen documents contains information       that will help her divorce.              "It proves his adulterous behavior. It would give me more       ability to negotiate what I'm requesting in the settlement," she       said.              But that doesn't mean she's happy about what she found out. And       her husband's presence on Ashley Madison was still an eyeopener.              "If this would have happened in December, I might have not even       searched," she said. "I would have just been in denial. To women       who have no suspicions, I say: check anyway. It's sad."              Comments:              Perry Penior       Perry Penior1 hour ago       What a disgusting woman              FlagShareLikeReply       Sam Sabet       Sam Sabet3 hours ago       Back in the 80's we had a saying this fits this artice...Call 1       800 WAAAA              Why did you all get married if you are going to mess around..and       don't give me.."we are having problems..getting a divorce" blaa       blaa....you got hit by the meanest lady in existance...Lady       Karma!                     FlagShare3Perry PeniorLikeReply       ajgag       ajgag3 hours ago       Ashley Madison ruined your life! No, you ruined your life!              FlagShare3Perry PeniorLikeReply       Moogst       Moogst4 hours ago       Didn't know enough to put the well uphill from the outhouse.       Prepaid credit card, Bitcoin, Hushmail, Tor network and       encrypted email.              FlagShareLikeReply       Tony Whisman       Tony Whisman4 hours ago       hahahahaaahaha.              FlagShareLikeReply       Oscar Guzman       Oscar Guzman5 hours ago       I don't understand why people are blaming the hack when they       know they are the one who made these choices, you cheat you       should be able to take the consequences. Also to able to tell       your partner your messing around with another person. Those       people who find their husband/wife on that website should thank       the hackers for they can stop wasting time on people who cant be       faithful.              FlagShare5Perry PeniorLikeReply       ca2011       ca20117 hours ago       Another evidence marriage is completely unnecessary and       government should get out of it. Just wait until the gays catch       up with stories like this one.              FlagShare1NDALLASFORTYLikeReply       jsb2       jsb27 hours ago       I heard Bruce was on Ashley Madison;              He found a girl named Caitlyn;       Now they are one.              FlagShareLikeReply       Charles Knowlton       Charles Knowlton8 hours ago       Oh, poor, POOR Ana. Ana the homewrecker. Don't feel sorry for       her or all the married men she slept around with. She made her,       uh, bed and now she and everyone else has to live with the       consequences. No sympathy here at all.              FlagShare5Perry PeniorLikeReply       Bobbie Smith       Bobbie Smith9 hours ago       The Ahley Madison hack didn't ruin your life. YOU ruined your       life the day you signed up!              FlagShare5Perry PeniorLikeReply       scottmisc12       scottmisc1212 hours ago       The Ashley Madison hack ruined my life - REALLY? When are we       going to take responsibility for our own actions? Your life is       ruined because you decided to cheat; not because of the hack.       Blaming others for our actions and political correctness will       ruin our great nation. On the same note, I did not see a single       tweet on "Police Life Matters" and promise that family will take       responsibilities and stop their kids getting to criminal       activities. I tweeted "All Life Matters" and I was surprised to       see how many people started responding with nasty reply - I       decided to close my twitter account. What is wrong is "All Life       Matters"?              FlagShare9Perry PeniorLikeReply       Alvin Lee       Alvin Lee11 hours ago       @scottmisc12 I agree that people should be kept accountable for       their own actions. Good points you raise.                            As for your question about what's wrong with "All Life Matters",       I think you have to understand that not all lives are treated       equally which is why "All Life Matters" is not the same as       "Black Lives Matter." Black lives matter movement highlights       the unequal treatment of blacks by the justice system as viewing       them as "dangerous" or "worthless". For example, Michael Brown       robs a convenience store for some cigs and he gets killed while       Dylan Roof was given a BurgerKing lunch after he was arrested       for killing 8 people in a Black church. 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