From: JWK4EVER 

> Hello Jan-Willem, 

Hello Matthew! Sorry for the late reply

> I still read this newsgroup occasionally, but not very often. I'm preoccupied
 with other matters right now, and have a very busy schedule. Also, I have
Aspergers, which impairs my organisation and time management. 
>

I have the same problems here, I have perhaps also a kind of autism, I am
chaotic. I have forgotten to read this newsgroup often. That’s why my reply
is so late

> It's nice to see you again. I hope you are well. I didn't feel offended or
bothered by anything you said in email. I'm guessing that you have sometimes
been rejected by other people in social situations in the past, and that you
feel confused about why this is. So, you're left wondering what's OK to say and
 what isn't. Social situations must feel like an invisible minefield to you,
and this must be a tough burden to live with. You are very brave and strong to
continue trying your best in the face of all this. 
>

Thank you, and I am well and also happy to see you again, I no longer do the
job I really hate and despise; many years ago I have lost my job and I am one
extended sick leave ever since. I am doing voluntary work that gives me no
stress at all. So I am not so desperate any more and I am waiting with patience
 for things to come…

> You don't need to feel so guilty and apologetic all the time. You're a good
person and you contribute positively to the world around you. You try your best
 in the face of difficult circumstances that are beyond your control. There are
 plenty of selfish jerks around, and you're not one of them. That janitor you
told me about seems like a nasty bully and a prize idiot. 
>

I am no longer have to see him again.

Hey I have to go now. To be continued later on the day or night


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