From: cblais1@shaw.ca   
      
   Thanks Dora - I see you're in the middle of moving - I sure don't envy you   
   that - drop me a line when you get a chance with your new addy and phone -   
   are you planning on staying in the Langley area?  It's pretty there!   
      
   Claire   
      
   "Dangerous"  wrote in message   
   news:W%qVh.6341$j%5.5304@edtnps90...   
   > Claire so sorry to hear of your loss.....   
   >   
   > My dad had a partial pension (served 22 years).   
   > Still miss him....and so many times I  have questions for   
   > him about life during his Military career...   
   >   
   > I don't know anything about DVA benefits.  My dad   
   > had none....I still have all the papers from his place...   
   > I should look through them again.   
   >   
   > And once again Claire.....my condolences...   
   >   
   > (((hugs)))   
   >   
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   > Dora   
   > Dangerous with Attitude   
   >   
   > I do it cause I can   
   > "Claire (Mason) Blais"  wrote in message   
   > news:907Uh.72671$DE1.50640@pd7urf2no...   
   > > Haven't posted for quite a while - we lost our Dad on March 29/07 -   
   after   
   > > a   
   > > long 5 months in hospital. As much as we were relieved that he was   
   finally   
   > > "home" where he kept asking to be especially in the last month - we miss   
   > > him   
   > > very much and haven't quite come to grips yet with the fact that we   
   won't   
   > > be   
   > > seeing him again in this life.   
   > >   
   > > Sometime when I'm feeling a bit stronger - remind me to post about the   
   > > pitfalls of not pre-planning/pre-paying for your funeral - Whew what an   
   > > experience! And the expense was astronomical for what we got - did most   
   of   
   > > it ourselves (catharsis factors).   
   > >   
   > > Dad never did qualify for any DVA benefits although he served in both   
   WWII   
   > > with the army and for 10 years during peacetime in the airforce - which   
   > > would have helped his wife with the costs of caring for him in the last   
   > > couple of year and ultimately with the funeral.  In the end the   
   contractor   
   > > who does the hearing tests for DVA wouldn't come and complete the tests   
   as   
   > > Dad had an infection (was not highly contagious- he wasn't in   
   > > isolation)and   
   > > this would have been the easiest way for him to qualify. Dad put off for   
   > > years applying for any DVA benefits - he managed nicely he said, on his   
   > > Fed   
   > > Govt Pension and didn't need the small amount of money he would have   
   been   
   > > able to get.  However that said - the medical benefits and end of life   
   > > benefits would have been very helpful.   
   > >   
   > > If any of you have parents who would qualify but are reluctant to go   
   > > through   
   > > the process please encourage them on - the medical stuff - is far and   
   > > above   
   > > whatever a person can get from a normal health care provider (they help   
   > > with   
   > > transport costs to and from medical appointments and help with special   
   > > equipment needed to maintain independance etc.) and they cover the full   
   > > cost   
   > > of the funeral if you are in receipt of a pension from them. This   
   leaves   
   > > the one(s) behind with a little more to manage on.   
   > >   
   > > Dad didn't qualify for last post fund either (too much cash in the bank)   
   > > but   
   > > only by a bit and it's a qualify or don't scenario - so if you don't   
   > > there's   
   > > no help - not a sliding scale - Last Post is not that much money   
   > > ($3,600-max) but every little bit would help someone.   
   > >   
   > > Neither DVA or Last Post are very user friendly systems so be prepared   
   to   
   > > deal with "big business" - but that said it's worth the effort.   
   > >   
   > > Someone on the group posted years ago about where a person could apply   
   to   
   > > get a copy of a person's military records once they were deceased - any   
   > > one   
   > > remember where - my sibs are I are thinking that we would like to get a   
   > > copy   
   > > of our Dad's to put with the family history stuff.   
   > >   
   > > Thanks   
   > > Claire   
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