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   We may....we are actually looking in Cloverdale which borders langley...   
   We have had 3 subjects removed and are just waiting on one more subject.   
      
      
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   Dora   
   Dangerous with Attitude   
      
   I do it cause I can   
   "Claire (Mason) Blais"  wrote in message   
   news:y7zVh.93912$DE1.42380@pd7urf2no...   
   > Thanks Dora - I see you're in the middle of moving - I sure don't envy you   
   > that - drop me a line when you get a chance with your new addy and phone -   
   > are you planning on staying in the Langley area?  It's pretty there!   
   >   
   > Claire   
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   > "Dangerous"  wrote in message   
   > news:W%qVh.6341$j%5.5304@edtnps90...   
   >> Claire so sorry to hear of your loss.....   
   >>   
   >> My dad had a partial pension (served 22 years).   
   >> Still miss him....and so many times I  have questions for   
   >> him about life during his Military career...   
   >>   
   >> I don't know anything about DVA benefits.  My dad   
   >> had none....I still have all the papers from his place...   
   >> I should look through them again.   
   >>   
   >> And once again Claire.....my condolences...   
   >>   
   >> (((hugs)))   
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   >> Dora   
   >> Dangerous with Attitude   
   >>   
   >> I do it cause I can   
   >> "Claire (Mason) Blais"  wrote in message   
   >> news:907Uh.72671$DE1.50640@pd7urf2no...   
   >> > Haven't posted for quite a while - we lost our Dad on March 29/07 -   
   > after   
   >> > a   
   >> > long 5 months in hospital. As much as we were relieved that he was   
   > finally   
   >> > "home" where he kept asking to be especially in the last month - we   
   >> > miss   
   >> > him   
   >> > very much and haven't quite come to grips yet with the fact that we   
   > won't   
   >> > be   
   >> > seeing him again in this life.   
   >> >   
   >> > Sometime when I'm feeling a bit stronger - remind me to post about the   
   >> > pitfalls of not pre-planning/pre-paying for your funeral - Whew what an   
   >> > experience! And the expense was astronomical for what we got - did most   
   > of   
   >> > it ourselves (catharsis factors).   
   >> >   
   >> > Dad never did qualify for any DVA benefits although he served in both   
   > WWII   
   >> > with the army and for 10 years during peacetime in the airforce - which   
   >> > would have helped his wife with the costs of caring for him in the last   
   >> > couple of year and ultimately with the funeral.  In the end the   
   > contractor   
   >> > who does the hearing tests for DVA wouldn't come and complete the tests   
   > as   
   >> > Dad had an infection (was not highly contagious- he wasn't in   
   >> > isolation)and   
   >> > this would have been the easiest way for him to qualify. Dad put off   
   >> > for   
   >> > years applying for any DVA benefits - he managed nicely he said, on his   
   >> > Fed   
   >> > Govt Pension and didn't need the small amount of money he would have   
   > been   
   >> > able to get.  However that said - the medical benefits and end of life   
   >> > benefits would have been very helpful.   
   >> >   
   >> > If any of you have parents who would qualify but are reluctant to go   
   >> > through   
   >> > the process please encourage them on - the medical stuff - is far and   
   >> > above   
   >> > whatever a person can get from a normal health care provider (they help   
   >> > with   
   >> > transport costs to and from medical appointments and help with special   
   >> > equipment needed to maintain independance etc.) and they cover the full   
   >> > cost   
   >> > of the funeral if you are in receipt of a pension from them. This   
   > leaves   
   >> > the one(s) behind with a little more to manage on.   
   >> >   
   >> > Dad didn't qualify for last post fund either (too much cash in the   
   >> > bank)   
   >> > but   
   >> > only by a bit and it's a qualify or don't scenario - so if you don't   
   >> > there's   
   >> > no help - not a sliding scale - Last Post is not that much money   
   >> > ($3,600-max) but every little bit would help someone.   
   >> >   
   >> > Neither DVA or Last Post are very user friendly systems so be prepared   
   > to   
   >> > deal with "big business" - but that said it's worth the effort.   
   >> >   
   >> > Someone on the group posted years ago about where a person could apply   
   > to   
   >> > get a copy of a person's military records once they were deceased - any   
   >> > one   
   >> > remember where - my sibs are I are thinking that we would like to get a   
   >> > copy   
   >> > of our Dad's to put with the family history stuff.   
   >> >   
   >> > Thanks   
   >> > Claire   
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