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   NoBody to AlleyCat   
   Re: Why Liberal Faggot Alan Argues The M   
   22 Jan 26 07:37:59   
   
   XPost: alt.fan.rush-limbaugh, alt.politics.trump   
   From: NoBody@nowhere.com   
      
   On Wed, 21 Jan 2026 18:14:18 -0600, AlleyCat  wrote:   
      
   >   
   >Willful blindness describes a situation where a troll deliberately shuts their   
   >eyes to facts that are staring them in the face.   
   >   
   >In the context of an argument or a "troll," it refers to someone who has been   
   >shown clear evidence but chooses to remain ignorant of it so they can continue   
   >to argue from a position of "not knowing."   
   >   
   >It allows them to maintain a circular argument or focus on irrelevant details   
   >because acknowledging the truth would end the debate.   
   >   
   >Key Characteristics   
   >   
   >Intentional Ignorance: It isn't that they can't understand; it's that they   
   >refuse to acknowledge the information to avoid the consequences of the truth.   
   >   
   >The "Ostrich" Effect: They bury their head in the sand of minutiae to avoid   
   >seeing the 'mountain" of evidence you've provided.   
   >   
   >Preserving the Argument: By claiming they haven't seen or don't believe the   
   >evidence, they feel "safe" to keep pushing their original (and likely   
   >incorrect) point.   
   >   
   >To shut down a conversation with someone practicing willful blindness, you   
   >have to stop providing new evidence and instead call out the behavior itself.   
   >   
   >Since they are using minutiae to stay in the loop, here is the first step to   
   >handling them:   
   >   
   >Step 1: The "Acknowledgment" Pivot   
   >   
   >Instead of explaining the facts again, use a "Pivot" statement. This forces   
   >them to address their refusal to look at the evidence rather than the evidence   
   >itself.   
   >   
   >The Script: "I have already provided the evidence for you. Since you are   
   >choosing to ignore that and focus on these minor details, it's clear we aren't   
   >having a productive conversation. I'm moving on."   
   >   
   >You don't HAVE to, of course, lest he thinks he's won.   
   >   
   >He WILL, of course, think that, because that's EXACTLY what he's after. He HAS   
   >to make himself feel superior to others, or he loses yet even MORE self-esteem   
   >and his ego suffers from it.   
   >   
   >You might wanna consider ignoring him. He gets it. He knows when he's truly   
   >lost, when he starts getting ignored.   
   >   
   >He doesn't want to show his desperation by egging you on. He'll accept you   
   >ignoring him and call it a win, like all low-self-esteemed nerds do.   
   >   
   >This dynamic is a classic psychological "stalemate." When someone uses willful   
   >blindness to protect a fragile ego, the argument isn't about the facts   
   >anymore; it's about dominance and emotional survival.   
   >   
   >Understand the "Winner's Fallacy":   
   >To faggot Alan, silence is interpreted as a "forfeit." He believes that if he   
   >gets the last word-even if that word is an irrelevant nitpick-he has "won". He   
   >prioritizes this "win" because his self-esteem is tied to being the smartest   
   >person in the room, and admitting he's missed a key piece of evidence feels   
   >like a total character collapse.   
   >   
   >He's in a state of "desperation" for a victory to prop up his ego. For him, a   
   >"win" isn't being right; it's simply to outlast you. If you provide a logical,   
   >final argument, he will find one tiny, misspelled word or a slightly off-topic   
   >comma to attack-not because it matters, but because it allows him to keep the   
   >"superior" position of the critic.   
   >   
   >Ignoring him is the only way to truly "starve" his ego. When you stop   
   >responding, you take away the one thing he needs to feel superior: your   
   >attention. By going silent, you essentially signal that his 'minutiae" are so   
   >irrelevant they don't even warrant a rebuttal.   
   >   
   >He will absolutely tell himself he's won because he got the last word. But in   
   >reality, he's left talking to a wall while you've reclaimed your time. By   
   >refusing to engage with the 'desperation" of his ego, you aren't just ignoring   
   >a nerd; you're refusing to participate in his self-delusion.   
      
   Excellent summary of him.   
      
   --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05   
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