XPost: can.general, can.politics, ott.general   
   From: Canuck57@nospam.com   
      
   On 03/07/2011 11:55 AM, merlin! wrote:   
      
   >> Like I said, people have lots of excuses.  Divorce is nasty when kids   
   >> are involved, but still, debt is a mater of priorities.   
   >   
   > Not always. Sometimes it is a matter of government or court imposition of   
   > invented debt.   
      
   Court can't impose debt.  Oh, you mean a delinquent dad waits 5 years   
   and all of a sudden must come clean or go to jail?   
      
   No sympathies here.  In essence the unpaid support is debt that is   
   accumulated debts.  You owe, you pay or your a welsher.   
      
   >> I NEVER use the credit card unless I know I already have the cash   
   >> waiting in the bank.  I use it more like a check book, no money no   
   >> spendy.   
   >   
   > Sometimes, the cash you thought you had in the bank has simply   
   > disappeared. That will leave a debt where you thought you had none.   
   >   
   > You are too quick to judge.   
      
   I have NEVER had cash disappear as you mentioned.  Nope, more likely   
   like the account holder smoked too much pot, fried the brains and no   
   longer thinks clearly.   
      
   >> Watch "Til Debt Do Us Part".  Great show.  For those that don't   
   >> believe in financial planing and debt management, skip on to RepoMan.   
   >>   
   >> Probably got divorced over money too.  Hey, people who manage their   
   >> finances well even have better love, sex and home life.  You bet, why   
   >> argue with money when you can make love?  #1 cause of divorce is   
   >>   MONEY. More DEBT is more RISK of a long series of support payments.   
   >   
   > You need an education in how that really works. The #1 cause of divorce is   
   > that female partner wants a divorce, often because she is bored with a   
   > husband who seems to paying little attention to her because he is working   
   > two jobs so they can stay out of debt.   
      
   Funny, in may case I left here.  Wanted a real relationship and didn't   
   see having kids with her.  Wise move, think before you screw up your life.   
      
   Sounds like you chose the wrong woman and decided to prolongate before   
   assuring you had a solid financial plan in a good relationship.   
      
   >> The price for financial stupidity is pretty high.  And it isn't like   
   >> high school where they push you through to get you out into the real   
   >> world.  Real world is going to grab you by the arse and set reality   
   >> right into you.   
   >>   
   >> Hey, I was even divorced once before meeting the right gal.  Came down   
   >> to having kids and the ex was stupid with money so I said no and left.   
   >> Smart move too, the next gal was a winner, been with her now over 25   
   >> years...  No one argument over money, as we had that discussion while   
   >> dating.   
   >   
   > You are a lucky man. Some are not so lucky. Lighten up.   
      
   While I agree luck is luck, don't under estimate using the head on your   
   shoulders to rule the head between the legs, not the other way around.   
      
   In the end, you make most of your own luck.   
      
   >> Choice is yours, and the more in debt, the deeper the hole.  Makes   
   >> for a longer climb out.   
   >   
   >   
      
      
   --   
   Government isn't the solution to the bad economy, it is the problem.   
   ------   
   In Debt We Trust!   
      -- Obama and the democrats, world record in debt incursion.   
      
   --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05   
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