XPost: can.general, can.politics, ott.general   
   From: Canuck57@nospam.com   
      
   On 04/07/2011 11:28 PM, merlin! wrote:   
   > Canuck57 wrote:   
   >> On 03/07/2011 11:55 AM, merlin! wrote:   
   >>   
   >>>> Like I said, people have lots of excuses.  Divorce is nasty when   
   >>>> kids are involved, but still, debt is a mater of priorities.   
   >>>   
   >>> Not always. Sometimes it is a matter of government or court   
   >>> imposition of invented debt.   
   >>   
   >> Court can't impose debt.   
   >   
   > They can, and they do.   
      
   No, you already incurred the debt and the court just forced you to   
   realize it.   
      
   So are you a delinquent dad?   
      
   >> Oh, you mean a delinquent dad waits 5 years   
   >> and all of a sudden must come clean or go to jail?   
   >>   
   >> No sympathies here.  In essence the unpaid support is debt that is   
   >> accumulated debts.  You owe, you pay or your a welsher.   
   >   
   > Or, like a lot of guys, you pull the plug. I understand why they do that,   
   > it really is hopeless.   
      
   Depends, I never saw a delinquent debtor come back with their self   
   esteem.  And the damage lasts a lifetime.  It should too as incurring   
   debt and not paying it back is a greedy form of theft.   
      
   It even affects your livelihood.  Employers do do credit checks as on   
   average, good credit is good employees.  Bad credit tends to be bad   
   employees.   
      
   Easier just to get two jobs, pay them debts off and get your collective   
   shit together.   
      
   >>>> I NEVER use the credit card unless I know I already have the cash   
   >>>> waiting in the bank.  I use it more like a check book, no money no   
   >>>> spendy.   
   >>>   
   >>> Sometimes, the cash you thought you had in the bank has simply   
   >>> disappeared. That will leave a debt where you thought you had none.   
   >>>   
   >>> You are too quick to judge.   
   >>   
   >> I have NEVER had cash disappear as you mentioned.   
   >   
   > Lucky man.   
      
   Nope.  Just have my eyes open and a good grip of reality.   
      
   >>   Nope, more likely   
   >> like the account holder smoked too much pot, fried the brains and no   
   >> longer thinks clearly.   
   >   
   > Don't be silly.   
      
   Funny, of all the friends I knew as kids that smoked dope, not a one   
   amounted to anything.  Not a one.  But the ones that didn't toke most   
   became something.  Go figure.   
      
   >> Funny, in may case I left here.  Wanted a real relationship and didn't   
   >> see having kids with her.  Wise move, think before you screw up your   
   >> life.   
   >   
   > Good for you. How's the kids?   
      
   Great.  Oldest one has her own business, successful too.  No complaints   
   there.  To grandkids already too.  All turning out quite good.   
      
   The idea of telling you I too screwed up with my first wife choice was   
   to show you it isn't futile to correct the issues, move on and get it   
   together.  Twist it how your denialist brain wants to work...   
      
   >> Sounds like you chose the wrong woman and decided to prolongate before   
   >> assuring you had a solid financial plan in a good relationship.   
   >   
   > Probably. Like most people.   
      
   It is in my top 5 things to do before getting married.  Yep.   
      
   >> While I agree luck is luck, don't under estimate using the head on   
   >> your shoulders to rule the head between the legs, not the other way   
   >> around.   
   >> In the end, you make most of your own luck.   
   >   
   > Okay. You are smarter than everyone and can look down your nose.   
   > Congratulations.   
      
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