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|    Deplorable Redneck to All    |
|    When the accused is a lesbian: a #MeToo     |
|    24 Aug 18 01:14:23    |
      XPost: school.general, alt.politics.clinton, ba.motss       XPost: soc.men       From: deplorable.redneck@nytimes.com              Sexually charged emails. Allegations of unwanted kissing and       touching. A letter in which powerful people leap to the defense       of the accused.              As Zoe Greenberg points out at the New York Times, the story       sounds a lot like those we’ve been hearing since the current       #MeToo movement began. But the players are different: In this       case, the accused is feminist scholar Avital Ronell, and the       person reporting harassment is a male former graduate student,       Nimrod Reitman.              Reitman, now a visiting fellow at Harvard studying the drawings       of Sigmund Freud, says Ronell, a professor of German and       comparative literature at New York University, subjected him to       sexual harassment, sexual assault, and stalking while she was       his academic adviser. In May, a Title IX investigation found her       responsible for harassment, though not the other charges, and       she’s been suspended. Now a group of scholars, including       renowned gender theorist Judith Butler, have written a letter       arguing that she is the victim of a “malicious campaign” by       Reitman.              Ronell is not the only woman to be accused of sexual misconduct       since the rise of #MeToo last fall. While male perpetrators can       enjoy special protection from consequences by virtue of their       gender, reports of female sexual harassers are a reminder that       people of all genders are capable of abusing their power.              Ronell’s case has all the hallmarks of a #MeToo story       Though Reitman filed his Title IX claim before the rise of       #MeToo, and says he was not inspired by the movement, his report       has much in common with the stories that survivors — many of       them women — have been telling since last fall.              Ronell’s behavior started in 2012, Reitman says, when she       invited him to stay with her in Paris. There, he says she asked       him to read to her while she took a nap, then pressed herself       against him, put his hands on her breasts, and kissed him. The       next day, he says he told her, “what happened yesterday was not       O.K. You’re my adviser.” But the advances continued, with       groping, unwanted kissing, and emails calling him “my most       adored one” and “cock-er spaniel.”              Reitman says he put up with this behavior because Ronell had       power over him as his adviser, Greenberg reports. He also says       that when he did complain to Ronell about her harassment, she       retaliated by sabotaging his job prospects. Graduate students       can be especially vulnerable to harassment by their advisers,       who often wield enormous control over the direction of their       careers.              Ronell’s response to the allegations also echoes those of other       powerful people — many of them men — accused as part of #MeToo.       She has asked why Reitman didn’t speak up if he was       uncomfortable, and argued that he was just upset because of his       intellectual inferiority: “His main dilemma was the incoherency       in his writing, and lack of a recognizable argument,” she said       in an interview that was part of the Title IX process.              Ronell also says her emails to Reitman were welcome at the time.       Noting that Reitman is gay and she is queer, she told the Times       the two shared “a penchant for florid and campy communications       arising from our common academic backgrounds and sensibilities.”              Finally, the letter written in Ronell’s defense is reminiscent       of those written on behalf of men accused of sexual misconduct,       from Al Franken to Junot Díaz. The signatories — including       Butler, philosopher Slavoj Zizek, and literary theorist Gayatri       Chakravorty Spivak — acknowledge that they have not actually       been able to read the confidential documentation of the Title IX       case. Nonetheless, they write:              we deplore the damage that this legal proceeding causes her, and       seek to register in clear terms our objection to any judgment       against her. We hold that the allegations against her do not       constitute actual evidence, but rather support the view that       malicious intention has animated and sustained this legal       nightmare.              Women can abuse their power too       Ronell is one of a few women publicly accused of sexual       misconduct since the rise of #MeToo last October. Cristina       García, a California state Assembly member, is the subject of       multiple reports of groping or unwanted advances. In May, an       investigation found that “the most egregious allegations could       not be substantiated,” according to the Los Angeles Times, but       Garcia has been removed from all legislative committees and has              [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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