From: ggggg9271@gmail.com   
      
   On Monday, February 6, 2023 at 4:07:28 PM UTC-8, Lenona wrote:   
   > >    
   > > But as some commentators said, you still need SOME romantic attachment.   
   I.e., don't think you're ever going to feel romantic, after marriage, toward   
   someone you were never really attracted to. (Assuming you've ALREADY known   
   each other for years and    
   the feeling still isn't there.)   
   > To put it another way, you can't live on salt, but most people can't bear   
   the thought of food without it, as a rule.    
   >    
   > (This was well portrayed in a famous British variant of "Cinderella" called   
   "Cap O' Rushes.")    
   >    
   > https://www.sacred-texts.com/neu/eng/eft/eft12.htm    
   >    
   > So, aside from economic reasons to marry (assuming one is honest about those   
   reasons), it's usually a bad idea to marry someone you don't love.   
      
   I wonder what matchmakers would say about that?  Arranged marriages still   
   exist in these times in parts of the world.   
      
   --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05   
    * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)