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|    HarryLime to George J. Dance    |
|    Re: The Psycho-epistemolgy of MMP (2/3)    |
|    03 Feb 25 17:24:59    |
      [continued from previous message]              >> When a catchphrase like "Why do you lie so much, Dunce?" is picked up by       >> various members of a group, it's a strong indicator that there is more       >> than a grain of truth behind it.       >       > Yet if all the "various members" using a term are tied to the person who       > began using it (whether PJR or yourself), it is evidence of nothing more       > than those ties.              No, George. It's evidence that you lie so damn much that everyone sees       you as a pathological liar.              >> In terms you might better be able to understand, I am not just asking       >> you why you lie so much -- I am pointing out that others here have       >> accused you of doing just that.       >       >>>> Why I revived it in PJR's absence, George       >>>> immediately began tit-for-tatting it back to me.       >>>       >>> No, Lying Michael; I don't use that phrase. Whenever I catch you in a       >>> lie I simply note it by calling you Lying Michael, and move on.       >>       >> Really, George. You're acting like a butthurt little boy again.       >       > Note to self: the subject continues to deny he is engaging in       > transference.              You don't know that transference is, George.              >> When I pose the rhetorical question of "Why do you lie so much, Dunce?",       >> you respond in typical tit-for-tat fashion by addressing me as "Lying       >> Michael."       >       > No, Lying Michael. The only time I call you Lying Michael is when you       > have told a lie in the paragraph I am immediately responding to - it       > makes them easier to find, when someone does a search.              Which is meaningless. Every time I ask you why you lie so much is taken       as a lie by you, so you always respond with a "lying Michael."       Regardless of how you slice it, the end result is still the same.              >> An adult would choose to refute the point I'd claimed they'd been lying       >> about -- assuming that my accusation was untrue.       >       > Indeed it does. Which is why every paragraph I write with that uses the       > term "Lying Michael" contains a refutation of what the lie I am pointing       > to.              A refutation involves presenting evidence to the contrary, George. Not       merely a denial of what someone has said.              >> Refutation goes a much       >> farther way to establishing one's innocence than yet another variation       >> on IKYABWAI.       >       > That is correct.       >       >> And where is the archival evidence to back your statement up?       >       > Do a search on the group for "Lying Michael". For older statements, do a       > search on the group for "Pedodragon lie."              All you've managed to say is that you call me "Lying Michael" when you       claim that I have lied. You then cite the previous statement I'd made       as the lie you are referring to. You do not even so much as attempt to       disprove my so-called lie.              Labeling a statement as a lie is not refutation. It is a variant of       IKYABWAI.              >> One only has to look at this particular exchange to see that you are       >> simply repeating back what I said to you, and redirecting it back at me       >> (IKYABWAI).       >       >> As previously noted, you repeatedly show yourself to be incapable of       >> expressing a single original thought.       >>       >>>> I also find George's description of how abused children are prone to       >>>> becoming lying adults telling -- as George also had an abusive parent       >>>> (actually both of George's parents were abusive).       >>>       >>> No, Lying Michael, that is not what I said (which is probably why you       >>> tried snipping it.) I said it's reasonable to think that all children       >>> try lying to escape punishment at some time. Whether they continue it,       >>> as children and later on as adults, is contingent on how well it worked       >>> for them.       >>       >> Why do you lie so much, Dunce?       >>       >> Don't you realize that I can easily reference the statements you've made       >> in *this* thread?       >>       >> Here is what you said, and I quote:       >>       >> "Lying is one tactic children usually try at some point to escape       >> punishment, and an abused child has all the more reason to keep at it ad       >> learn how to do it successfully. Since MMP comes across as clever (at       >> least 120 IQ), it is also fair to think that he was able to learn to lie       >> successfully. So it is fair to conclude that he did learn to lie       >> successfully, and escape punishment, more than once."       >       > Exactly. "Lying is one tactic children usually try at some point to       > escape punishment" (not just abused children, but all children) -- and       > whether they learn to be liars depends on how successful their attempts       > at lying as chilsewn were.              What about this pronouncement which appears within the same quote: "and       an abused child has all the more reason to keep at it [and] learn how to       do it successfully."                     >>>> It seems that George       >>>> has finally answered PJR's ongoing question of "Why do you lie so much,       >>>> Dunce."       >>>       >>> I've answered that question many a time, usually with "Why do you       >>> project so much, Piggy?" - the same phrase I use on you when       >>> you copy it. Of course, with him (and with you) it's as much conscious       >>> preemption as unconscious projection, but       >>> there was no point trying to explain all that to him.       >>       >> You are wrong, George. It's merely the recognition of something that is       >> obvious to everyone here       >       > If you still had "everyone" (Team Monkey and your assorted Bandar-Log)       > here in this group, they would be quoting and sharing your post back and       > forth, and that would be all people would be able to read. However, as       > you have already noted, "everyone" is not "here" - they have all gone       > away to your facebook group, leaving just you, me, and my colleague.              We were talking about a statement made by PJR, George. I said that the       frequency with which he used it directly corresponded to the frequency       of your lies which prompted its use. You claimed that it was a       preemptive tactic to somehow stop you from calling attention to any lie       that he supposedly made.              What has the make-believe "Bandar-Log" got to do with it? Or the fact       that you and your Donkey are the only people here?              >> -- that you are a pathological liar. In one       >> post in this thread, you claimed that abused children were prone to       >> becoming liars in adult life. When I referred to your statement, you       >> denied it, claiming that you'd only said that all children lied at one       >> time or another. I only had to return to the beginning of this thread       >> to pull your original statement and post it here for all to see.       >       > That is the post we are now discussing. However, However, Lying Michael,       > the statement you found and put back in the thread (thank you for doing       > that) says exactly what I claimed it does; while your paraphrase was       > shown to be another lie and misrepresentation.              You stated: "and an abused child has all the more reason to keep at it       [and] learn how to do it successfully."              >> You lie.       >> Not once. Not twice. But over and over again.       >>       >> The sad part is that I don't think you're even aware that you are doing       >> it. Lying has become such an ingrained part of your personality       >> (including lying to yourself), that you subconsciously falsify your       >> perception of yourself, and others, on a continuous basis.       >       > Now, all that sounds like things I have said about you. But rather than       > slip into the preemption game by caling it IKYABWAI, I think it would be       > more productive to simply note that you're engaging in transference       > (trying to analyze your analyst) and move on.              OMFG! You are misusing the word. Stop it.              That is COUNTERTRANSFERENCE.              Transference is when one projects characteristics of a third party onto              [continued in next message]              --- SoupGate-DOS v1.05        * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)    |
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